So, this dude that records up in the studio is going out with this white girl. The white girl's sister got killed by a black man she was dating, then the black man killed himself after killing the sister. The family of the girl are from the stix/farm type area and are pretty racist (if not openly racist, they have definately have a sperated mindset). It turns out some of the family told the girl that 'if her boyfriend ever threatened her they would kill him before he could do anything to her'. That's pretty racist, but it's not like they weren't racist before. It's wierd and I can't really tell you an answer, I would just say that I'm not ignorant enough to mix greif with racism.