She isn't a bitch tho, I promise yall, she is incredible.
By your standards yes. But those you shouldn't trust.
I'm not rushing into shit. I don't even know if she still wants me to come down because I was going to go down there and be there for her when her son was born. I have never just talked to anyone like I do to her.
Volunteering to take care of her son before there is any REAL PROPOSED COMMITMENT is RUSHING INTO SHIT.
"I don't even know if she still wants me to come down..."
You're blind, you're contradicting yourself.
Call it weak, call it whatever the fuck you want to call it. I'm not clinging to her, I'm just legitamately worried about her and I want to know if she is ok..
You are clinging to her because you are still "legitmately worried" about her. Let us be honest, the reason everyone is talking so much shit is because it's apparent to every one else that you have NO REASON to be legitmately worried. You're over extending yourself. And why? Because you talked on the phone alot?
I'm not going to call her anymore because I have already. Its just hard because we talk every single day either online and on the phone and this is not normal. I'm not gonna trip on it anymore because I realize that I can't be like that and I have to let people make there own decisions and just be there for them when they need you.
You are doomed to fail in your relationships because you trust too easily. Of course it's not normal to talk on the phone every single day and online. Just like its not normal for people to fly across the country when some girl has an abortion/miscarriage (and it WAS an abortion, don't be stupid) just to "be there for them."
You've obviously been led down a path. She had another man the whole time. He got her pregnant. She got rid of it. And stopped talking to you. Maybe this person is amazing, on a level that you could understand only by talking to her from a distance which made her feel safe.
But the bitch probably has emotional problems and is too stupid to carry on honestly with another person, which you should've realized earlier, which should have rendered all this "male emotional baby daddy I love you talk to me we can do this I just wanna be there for you" bullshit null and void.