again, thanks for all the input. i just found out yesterday that she is about 5 weeks pregnant and shit. she's alot further along than i had thought. i think she is puttin in all the applications for wic and all that, like i said, i ain't planning to marry her so it will be expensive as hell as far as fomula and medical bills and shit. if we were married, all that medical shit would be free, but not until the kid is born will the medical bills be free. so up until she has the kid, the bills are all on her, which i am will likely have to pay for:dead: