I was always taught that the guys were supposed to chase the girls so I never chased a guy in my life. My mom woulda been hella pissed if she found out I was chasin' some boy like the girls do these days. Mom said guys respected girls that were modest and waited until marriage. She said the out going girls would just get used and tossed to the side, lol, which they did. My mom isn't a very good mom in many ways, but she did teach me self-respect and modesty. I was always shy, too scared to even start a conversation with anyone, nonetheless a guy.
My mom is hella old fashioned though... things have changed over the years. I think I see more girl whores than I do guys these days, which makes me sad. You don't see dudes bending over backwards anymore for their ladies either... like picking them up and opening doors, buying dinner, taking her out to a movie, etc. You rarely run into the modest girls either though who actually respect them kind of things. Everyone is all about sex these days.