in all realness unles you or him was right there then both of ya'll cant really talk on it,...it's just your oppinon,..you have yours,....let him have his,...this is america,...tell him fuck you if you want,...but let him have his honest say so,...what?...would it make everyone feel better to just say things they really dont mean just not upset anyone else?....relax,....you nor him are doing the time,...relax