For sure. I paid $6500 for my lawyer. He claimed it was better to let her have custody and then get legal visitation set in stone. We're 50/50 on almost everything, medical, school and religious decisions. I even get to write him off on my taxes every other year. It's not horrible, but I feel like I kinda got faulty advice and should gage just got joint custody. But it's all good. I'm just mad at the states handling of it all. The $ sucks but fuck it.