When I was in high school this one kid I knew was dating this cute but pretty religious girl and she was "waiting for marriage to have sex." Like, she smoked weed and drank and would do more or less everything but let him fuck. A few months into their relationship he said she started letting him fuck her in the ass which was confirmed by my girlfriend at the time who was friends with her. This went on for the first year of their relationship when she finally decided she no longer wanted to wait and was in love and wanted to give up the holy ghost to him. Anyways, he declinded and just kept butt fucking her until they broke up after dating like a year and a half. While I don't think there is anything wrong with giving it to a girl in the pooper like some dudes think and have given it to a few myself I found him refusing to actually fuck her really weird. Dude joined the Navy right out of high school and I never heard of him again which always kind of made me wonder lol.