I gotta present this situation to the brehs, and tell me what u think. this is gonna be kinda tl;dr
so I'm talking to this chick from my job. Originally I just wanted to fuck... but we've been hella texting/emailing at work/hanging out, and I kinda started feeling her and she's been jockin me hardcore. we both rying to keep it on the DL at work though
anyways... last night she dipped out to Berkeley with a couple other females from my job and this other dude I work with also met them out there too (he's my boy, but we're not hella close friends or anything). so I was meeting them already out there, driving myself, and she text me like "shit I wasn't sure if u were coming so I already asked John to give me a ride home" he's the only other person there, besides me who lives lightweight close to her. I told her I could give her a ride, she didn't respond so I was like whatever. so when we were leaving, dude is like "you still need a ride home?" she was like "yeah" and looked at me, so I said "you wanna roll with me? I live closer." she asked dude "you don't mind?" he responds "no it's fine" so she decides to go with him. keep in mind, for him to drop her off is 15 mins one directions, and 15 mins back. for me it's literally on my way home, so it makes no logical sense for him to take her. anyways, ends up that my car got locked in the parking garage because it closed at midnight, so I gotta ride with them, feeling like a jackass like I'm the 3rd wheel, when I was just kickin it with the bitch 1 on 1 the night before. he drops her off and then drops me off so I don't really think they kicked it or anything, but still
we're not officially dating or even really close so she can do what she wants. but does it seem like I should even bother giving her the time of day now if I'm feeling her? I was thinking bout bringing it up, but might come off like some jealous ass boyfriend
the shitty part is I work with her and we're all cool with the same ppl at work. exactly why I didn't wanna get mixed up with this shit int he first place. I hate when I like females. I'd rather only wanna fuck them