The bottom line is, everyoen is different and everyone sees things differently. However, whether its the internet or NOT, there is a time and place for everything and I feel that anyone with a mature sense of a thoguht process, can recognize that. If you know something you say is going to be disrespectful to another in a manner of a death or an illness or a tragedy, why say anything to make it worse? You have to step into the other peoples shoe to understand that...
This is ME though, I guess I really cant speak for anyone else but I guess I just expect men in their mid-to-late 20's to be a LITTLE better with decision making...internet or real life...