In all honesty, man, regardless of the pain you wish not to put people in and how much you think everyone is into themselves, if I'm looking at this psychoanalytically, I'd say you're performing projective behavior and acting out because of such.
I don't doubt for a second you actually think that every person you meet is self-centered, what I am doubting is your seemingly deity-like behavior and the way you act as if you're not part of the problem.
I cannot imagine not having my mom to talk to as she's still very much alive and well, but in the end you create your own misery and depression. We, collectively, have nothing to do with why you're always at odds with people on here.
That lies in you and how you've chosen to perceive the world and the people in it, albeit on the internet or out there in the physical world.
What you're trying to perform is "the looking glass self" technique, and unfortunately for you, I don't think anyone here is willing to play that game.