No, I don't think its genetic. No one in my family is an alcoholic or heavy drinker. I indulge in alcoholic goodness in an attempt to deal with the stresses of everyday life. I don't "need" to drink, but it does get my mind off of things, at least for the time being. There have been times where I've overdone it, but that was my own fault.
IMO, true alcoholics crave it more than your typical social drinker. They can't go without it. There's also the withdrawl symptoms they experience and everything else associated with alcoholism.
The only real "binge" I've been on was after my uncle passed away. I drank every night for a week after he passed. Did I need to drink? No, but that's just how I chose to cope with it.
I'm not much of a social drinker either. I've never cared too much for the bar scene. I'm perfectly content with a bottle of Hennessy; if my pockets are hurtin', I'll fuck with some Mad Dog 20/20 or some OE.
i totally agree, i wanted to quit, and tried, im just too deep into it, having withdrawals and what not, the withdrawals are no joke either. i started doing it all the time out of bordum, all of spring break my senior year i was drunk, now i do it on the social tip, i get along with my friends alot better when im faded, and when im with people i get along with, and im happy, i dont have to be depressed or nothing, i got adhd, ocd, depression, and paranoia, the only thing that cures all that at once is grabbing my 3 best friends, and a bottle to hit up a party. both my parents are or were alcoholics (mom quit, dads still at it) so it could be genetic, i think tolerance is genetic though, my first time drinking, i took 15 shots of r&r in about 2 hours, i was wobbling a little, but wasnt slurring my speech or being belligerent