I agree with you. There's nothing wrong with competition; I enjoy it. There is a formula to Rhythmic radio though and it is programmed for women, so something a female would enjoy is key.
The gripes about San Diego radio are the same gripes you will hear everywhere else....commercial radio is what it is. The politics of it have gotten out of hand. You also have to look at the fact that everybody and their mom thinks that have a rap career. The market is unindated with not only major label acts that suck ass, but local acts that suck ass. That's a lot of shitty music to sift thru, making it especially hard to get a local joint played because a major act will always get a leg up.
Many stations will not take chances on records anymore. They will only play majors who have a huge machine behind them promoting the album, song and video. Without that support, you are playing a "stiff" record that will not be a hit that everyone else is hearing in the clubs and seeing on TV. Major conglomerates like Clear Channel can't afford to take any risks...they have compromised their products enough (don't get me started).
At the end of the day, it's always good to have options. Competition keeps you on your toes and shows you different ways of attacking the same animal. Sometimes it's hard for me personally to be in radio because I am a hip hop fan and I get as frustrated as the next guy. But after working at 3 stations and being a part of each that have significantly kicked the competitors ass (including a Clear Channel station that we spanked up North), I am starting to see that the tried and true ways of conducting a station may annoy me, but they get ratings. Ratings equals advertising and advertising means I get a paycheck (as small as it may be). Most of us DJ's got into radio out of the sheer love of music, especially underground. It was like a dream. After you realize your dream is a business venture, you either have to co-sign or quit.
If you've ever seen the movie Brown Sugar, you might remember a little quote that was made: "You always have to sell out a little bit to make it in this industry". Meaning you can keep it real all day with your real n*ggaz, but you'll probably just end up broke. Sad but true.