first impression is everything,..make sure u wear sum slacks and a collar shirt and not go in there like a siccness thug,lol...then its all about attitude,talk to the judge with big words if u can and show him u aint no punk,..and make it seem like u dont have time or the money to be there in court and dealing with her bullshit just cuz she got caught under the influence and the cop told her she couldnt take the kids,...tell him everything was cool but because of that incident,..thats why u guys are there,.because of her trying to sneak around and play games all drunk with ur drunk ass friends!...tell the judge exactly like that to show u aint playing when it comes to ur kids man!....if u go up there like owe owe i dunno,then theyre gonna treat u like a fucking shmuck!...and yes,..get the report and everything u can to show shes a low life,..go to her pad if u could and take pics if she lives like a slob,..thats wut i did and im waiting for the day she trys any bullshit on me!...but yea,...boss up and go in there and represent ur shit homie!...dont take no for an answer and tell them u cant pay that shit just cuz shes acting up for nothing!...peace