Anybody else here HATE loaning people money?
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That's why I dont even bother with loaning money. I mean if you a friend i'll lend you some and I wont care if you dont pay me back as long as you got your shit together cuz I know sometime down the line you'll hook me up somehow.
But if you broke i wont even fuck with it, sorry it's the decisions they made they need to get their life together, cant leech off of people forever.
But if you broke i wont even fuck with it, sorry it's the decisions they made they need to get their life together, cant leech off of people forever.
Then when you hit them up its like "oh yeah, I got you".....if you had the funds in your hands, why didnt you just call me first and give me my money? Its not like you forgot...
Anybody in the past(in college) who I ever borrowed money from, I have never forgotten that I owed them money...then again, my mission back then was to always pay them back on time...the feeling of owing someone money is a horrible one, so I dont do it....then again, back then I only borrowed liked $5.00 or something, but still...
Anybody in the past(in college) who I ever borrowed money from, I have never forgotten that I owed them money...then again, my mission back then was to always pay them back on time...the feeling of owing someone money is a horrible one, so I dont do it....then again, back then I only borrowed liked $5.00 or something, but still...
As an adult and since ever having a job, I can proudly say I have never asked anyone for money. If I don't have money, that ain't anyone else's problem, but mine.
I don't give a fuck, it's all inexcuseable to me and a cheap way out. I don't give a fuck if you need money to fix your car, rent,etc... That's all avoidable with a bit of smart spending. There's something called a savings. Always prepare for the worst.
Everyone that has asked me for money, tends to have poor spending habits in some way or another. A good friend of mine has asked me for money a couple of times. He pays me back usually within atleast a week, but the bottomline he still makes poor spending choices. He just buys the dumbest shit sometimes. He's one of those guys that buys a lot of shit on craigslist/eBay as a collector/hobbyist, keeps it for a bit, then sells it back when he realizes it's pointless. It's all avoidable.
I don't give a fuck, it's all inexcuseable to me and a cheap way out. I don't give a fuck if you need money to fix your car, rent,etc... That's all avoidable with a bit of smart spending. There's something called a savings. Always prepare for the worst.
Everyone that has asked me for money, tends to have poor spending habits in some way or another. A good friend of mine has asked me for money a couple of times. He pays me back usually within atleast a week, but the bottomline he still makes poor spending choices. He just buys the dumbest shit sometimes. He's one of those guys that buys a lot of shit on craigslist/eBay as a collector/hobbyist, keeps it for a bit, then sells it back when he realizes it's pointless. It's all avoidable.
i hate being in situations like this, i hate having to beg for my own money back. the best thing you can do at this point is be atraight up and tell em you need the money by the end of the week (demAnd it back) cuz u got some unespected bill or something, make something up that sounds believable or kinda believable. i noe the shit sucks and you feel bad but its obvious he aint giving a fuck about u either. u just gota learn from your mistakes and next time just say I would but im broke right now.
when one of my buddies transferred from community college to a university he had to take out a school loan. it was a private college so he had to take out a fat loan...his mom owns a restaurant and cause of the recession or what not the restaurant hadnt been doing too well...so his mom had him borrow as much federal money as theyd give him so he could loan some to her. she promised to pay him back asap
so she asked for 20k lol
long story short....this was 2-3 years ago and he hasnt seen a dime from her and he's now in over 90k debt
turns out she took 10k from his brother too (which i dont know how the fuck that guy has 10k in his bank account)
and turns out the restaurant has actually been doing pretty well for the past few years.....shes actually in major 50-60k debt from multiple casinos
both the brothers said they suspected they wouldnt get the money back when they loaned it out but when they found out it was actually to pay for nights of blackjack gone wrong....they werent too happy....espcecially cause we're not talking $40 or $400 even..but $30000! haha
so she asked for 20k lol
long story short....this was 2-3 years ago and he hasnt seen a dime from her and he's now in over 90k debt
turns out she took 10k from his brother too (which i dont know how the fuck that guy has 10k in his bank account)
and turns out the restaurant has actually been doing pretty well for the past few years.....shes actually in major 50-60k debt from multiple casinos
both the brothers said they suspected they wouldnt get the money back when they loaned it out but when they found out it was actually to pay for nights of blackjack gone wrong....they werent too happy....espcecially cause we're not talking $40 or $400 even..but $30000! haha
IVE HAD IT WHERE, I KNOW A PERSON WHOS ASKING TO BORROW MONEY... IS JUST BULLSHITTING ABOUT PAYING ME BACK...THEY'LL ASK FOR LIKE 60 BUCKS AND I'LL TELL THEM I GOT LIKE 20 BUCKS I CAN LEND...AND THEY USUALLY JUMP ON IT ALL DESPERATE AND SHIT...I KNOW THEY AINT GONNA HONOR SHIT, BUT THEY PUT YOU ON THE SPOT IN FRONT OF THERE KIDS OR FAMILY OR THEY GOT AT YOU WHEN YOU WERENT REALLY PREPARED TO DEAL WITH THAT SHIT...BUT AT LEAST YOU DIDNT TAKE THAT MEAN A HIT, AND AT THAT POINT PRETTY MUCH PAID THEM TO KICK ROCKS AT A LOWER RATE...IT'S FUCKED UP TO HAVE TO GO THROUGH THAT TYPE SHIT...BUT THAT'S JUST HOW MOTHERFUCKERS ARE WHEN IT COMES TO MONEY...SKANLESS
unless its something like "i left my wallet at home, pay this and ill give you cash at the crib" then i dont loan money to just anyone
i dont even consider it a loan, if i hook someone up with money, i make peace with the fact that 99% of the time, people dont pay shit back
ive had alot of good come out of helpin folks out too, its not always negative, i helped my brother out with his rent, now in return he found me a car and im goin up north to pick it up friday
i dont even consider it a loan, if i hook someone up with money, i make peace with the fact that 99% of the time, people dont pay shit back
ive had alot of good come out of helpin folks out too, its not always negative, i helped my brother out with his rent, now in return he found me a car and im goin up north to pick it up friday