I don't think its self centered to know who you are because I know who I am, I'm just not open about it or feel the need to tell anyone who I am. I'm not afraid of being judged either, other people's opinions on me really don't matter, because they aren't me and they don't really know me unless they take the time to do so. I just figure if somebody really wants to know me and who I am, they can come find out for themselves. I mean, isn't that the way it works?