Am I a bad father?

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You are wrong on so many levels, breh. lol

A person’s character or personality is significantly shaped by their early interactions with primary caregivers during their first few years of life. Early experiences are internalized and become organized into mental representations or cognitive schemas of one’s self in relation to others.

If you all of a sudden decide to start being a good parent only after the child is in his double digits, you've failed as a parent.
What I meant by that was by him drinking in front of his kid right now, the kid doesn't need to be told don't drink because he doesnt know what's alcohol is, so doesn't have to be told to not drink it, even tho Mike does. So the hypocrisy isn't needed just yet. When he hits double digits Mike will have to tell the kid to not do a bunch of shit that he himself probably does. Mike is a good father so far imo, so I wasn't implying "all of a sudden" being a good parent. I merely said enjoy having fun before you will be considered a hypocrite by your kid for having fun. So I'm not wrong on any of the many levels, breh.
 
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I have to agree on the bad parent. Its exposure to shit like that, that turns kids into those little bastards that are playing in the apartments that use "Fuck" in every other word they say to there friends. My daughter is 2 and is a sponge when it comes to repeating words and mimicking what she sees us doing. Your damn right I am not playing no Lynch or Gangsta rap around her. Even when I listen to music around here its an edited online radio station.
 
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Youre not a bad father...Earlier I was blasting Dayton Family into my newborns crib, and blowin crack smoke in his face, who knows where the little fucker is now though...Its daddy's "siccness time"...
 
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I consider myself a good father lol. I work from home, so I also play with him during the day etc., and at the same time I have to teach him German and English. Would suck if he started talkin Chinese to me haha

But yeah, sometimes I just need to listen to some good music...
Headphones work wonders!

And Thinking about it, This one thing you did with the music doesn't classify you as a bad father, It just means you didn't make the greatest choice at the time. I cant honestly judge how you raise your child just from you letting him listen to some good rap. I am not going to leap and say you don't do other shit wrong as well when you could be doing it right.
 
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95 % of these posters only know the kids that are dried up on a towel under their pillow. no one knows shit about raising kids till hey have their own. do you . teach your kid respect and it dont matter what he listens to or see's you do.(to an extent) yeah he is learning now but if all u did was sip beer while surfing the sicc all day when ever he's around then yeah your a bad dad. but im pretty sure u dont do that tho.
 
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What I meant by that was by him drinking in front of his kid right now, the kid doesn't need to be told don't drink because he doesnt know what's alcohol is, so doesn't have to be told to not drink it, even tho Mike does. So the hypocrisy isn't needed just yet. When he hits double digits Mike will have to tell the kid to not do a bunch of shit that he himself probably does. Mike is a good father so far imo, so I wasn't implying "all of a sudden" being a good parent. I merely said enjoy having fun before you will be considered a hypocrite by your kid for having fun. So I'm not wrong on any of the many levels, breh.
Thanks for clarifying that.