well I didnt type what i typed just to hear myself talk, this is coming from someone that has sent off over 3000 packages in the mail.
First off, if you paid on say a Friday, maybe he didnt send till Monday, which is 4 days....or maybe he only ships once a week...there is many factors that can go into play on how long it takes....even if he ships first class, the post office will say 4-10 days most likely on first class....thats no gurantee that it will get there in that amount of time, I have had numerous packages take 2 weeks...I just really think you are over reacting about the whole situation, it aint even been that long.
I hate when people email me asking where a package is after a week or something, if a person wants a cd that fast, go to the store and buy it is what i tell them
this is on the basis of just a normal seller, I didnt look at ole boys feedback, I am sure you have used good judgement to come to the conclusion you got jacked but I just wanted to point out that shipping can be slow and varies from time to time, depending on location, where he dropped it off (inside post office or in a regular mail box)...if he dropped it off at a main post office location or a branch, what time of day, what day of the week, if its a busy time for mail season, etc