Gettin fuckin married
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Congrats folks!
T @Tru Mindz ...I feel you! I been ridin the engagement thing for a while now, but it is time.
Next year its on & crackin.
T @Tru Mindz ...I feel you! I been ridin the engagement thing for a while now, but it is time.
Next year its on & crackin.
Here's some of the best advice I can give a young man or man that is about to get married.
Marriage is hard, but be a man about it. Suck it up.
When facing problems, no matter how big or small in your marriage always seek advice from a married person or persons. Preferably ones you know and trust, and especially married people who have been through similar problems. Try your best to surround yourselves with married couples, same age preferably. But couples a tad bit older don't hurt.....divorced people come across bitter and unhelpful, unless you are going through a divorce, then I am sure they can help you.
You are making a commitment so stick to it.
I don't know how religious or God believing you are, but it doesn't hurt to pray for your marriage.......even in the good times.
Don't make money, sex, & the siccness a bigger priority than the happiness of your relationship. Remember Marriage is not 50/50 like they say, it's 80% man/ 20% woman..........just get used to it.
I been married for almost 13 years. Got married real young. Believe me when I tell you that I struggled in almost every facet of a relationship. But today I am still with my wife and we are very happy. Can look back and just smile now.
Good luck, God bless, and congratulations.........
JL
Marriage is hard, but be a man about it. Suck it up.
When facing problems, no matter how big or small in your marriage always seek advice from a married person or persons. Preferably ones you know and trust, and especially married people who have been through similar problems. Try your best to surround yourselves with married couples, same age preferably. But couples a tad bit older don't hurt.....divorced people come across bitter and unhelpful, unless you are going through a divorce, then I am sure they can help you.
You are making a commitment so stick to it.
I don't know how religious or God believing you are, but it doesn't hurt to pray for your marriage.......even in the good times.
Don't make money, sex, & the siccness a bigger priority than the happiness of your relationship. Remember Marriage is not 50/50 like they say, it's 80% man/ 20% woman..........just get used to it.
I been married for almost 13 years. Got married real young. Believe me when I tell you that I struggled in almost every facet of a relationship. But today I am still with my wife and we are very happy. Can look back and just smile now.
Good luck, God bless, and congratulations.........
JL
all im saying is what is the point of getting married if you arent trying to bring up a family in the conventional way?
not saying thats the only way to get it done.
but if you are in love with someone and want to be with each other till death do you part. then why get paper work involved? you dont trust that your love is gonna last so why get into binding contracts?
other than benefits what else is there that would be diff???
is it because thats just what youre supposed to do? u can live a long happy life with one person easily with out getting married.
go ahead get the courts involved where they have the final say
good luck when over 50 % of all marriages end in divorce and the # is climbing.
not saying thats the only way to get it done.
but if you are in love with someone and want to be with each other till death do you part. then why get paper work involved? you dont trust that your love is gonna last so why get into binding contracts?
other than benefits what else is there that would be diff???
is it because thats just what youre supposed to do? u can live a long happy life with one person easily with out getting married.
go ahead get the courts involved where they have the final say
good luck when over 50 % of all marriages end in divorce and the # is climbing.
^^ i feel u bruh, it ain't like the old days where u can choke slam a bitch , get stabbed by ur wifey etc.. and still be married, people now adays will get divorced over someone "liking" a facebook comment and take it too far.. lmao I know I'm being extreme but u get the point.. why u think im not married bruh growin up as a kid seeing my folks and how they got married at an early age I thought that was the norm. I know I ain't ready for that shit so Imma just enjoy myself in the mean time... its a damn shame about the divorce rate n all that..
i agree you don't have to be married to raise a family right, it's all about values and morals, customs, etc..
i agree you don't have to be married to raise a family right, it's all about values and morals, customs, etc..
