Ashley Madison leaks could be linked to suicides

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Wow fuck them people on that site. They all laughing and happy that the people committed suicide. Saying its "karma". And your fault for putting your "business" online like that.

Ya I don't think cheating = a death sentence. Watch out the moral police are coming out the woodwork. And hey so I guess they wont care if hackers post their credit card info either cuz obviously you shouldn't post your business online.

Ya it's stupid the dumbasses cheated with online trace but nobody deserves to have personal info stolen from them and blasted online. If they applaud the hackers for this where do we draw the line? They may agree with this instance but something else may happen where the majority agrees with the hack but they don't.....wont be so funny then huh.
 
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Ya it's stupid the dumbasses cheated with online trace but nobody deserves to have personal info stolen from them and blasted online. If they applaud the hackers for this where do we draw the line? They may agree with this instance but something else may happen where the majority agrees with the hack but they don't.....wont be so funny then huh.
They dont? SO its ok for them to be dirty pieces of shit, but its not OK when it happens to them? I think they do. You do dirty shit, dont get mad when your ass gets caught. Thats the line you walk when you lie.
 
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They dont? SO its ok for them to be dirty pieces of shit, but its not OK when it happens to them? I think they do. You do dirty shit, dont get mad when your ass gets caught. Thats the line you walk when you lie.

Just because they cheated doesn't mean they don't deserve the same right to privacy as every other person.

So your saying just because someone cheats it's fine to be targeted by hackers and have all your personal info blasted online? That is stupid and reminds me of the crazed "morally superior" nut cases.

They fucked up, made a mistake. I don't agree with it and I'm not defending them. I'm defending the right to privacy for everyone and just because you don't agree with a persons lifestyle doesn't make you the deciding factor in when its ok to put someone's personal info online and when it's not.

I mean if people egg things like this on when is the line going to be drawn? The white knights will be out there hacking porn sites and the like and putting everyone on blast just because they don't agree with it.


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Just because they cheated doesn't mean they don't deserve the same right to privacy as every other person.
I would try and use this argument to their spouses...

So your saying just because someone cheats it's fine to be targeted by hackers and have all your personal info blasted online? That is stupid and reminds me of the crazed "morally superior" nut cases.
What i am saying is if you are going to be a piece of shit, dont get mad when someone is a peice of shit to you. If you are a believer in karma, its that whole "what comes around, goes around".

They fucked up, made a mistake. I don't agree with it and I'm not defending them. I'm defending the right to privacy for everyone and just because you don't agree with a persons lifestyle doesn't make you the deciding factor in when its ok to put someone's personal info online and when it's not.
So cheating ong someone you made MARRIAGE VOWS with is a "lifestyle"? Good to know. Again, be a piece of shit, get shitted on. Not sure how this concept is flying over you head.

I mean if people egg things like this on when is the line going to be drawn? The white knights will be out there hacking porn sites and the like and putting everyone on blast just because they don't agree with it.
Here is an idea...DONT BE A PIECE OF SHIT. Maybe that will help. No sure, just an idea.

If someone agrees with being a lying piece of shit, then fuck them too. Plain and simple. I have LITERALLY, no sympathy for these people. At all. Life just served you a fat ass lesson...now its your choice on what to do with it. They already made the choice to be a piece of shit. See how that turned out?

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I see all this outrage about the people who were using Ashley Madison but the numbers aren't adding up to me. Everyone hates a cheater yet 25-30% of married people have cheated and a much higher number for people not married but in a relationship. Ashley Madison had 39 million members. So seems to me there are a lot of hypocrites since the numbers show cheating is much more common than people like to admit.

With that said, Ashley Madison and it's parent company seem pretty shady. Apparently if you wanted off their database you have to pay them money, which is basically extortion. And even then they didn't completely remove your info (which resulted in a lot of people who used the site but stopped still being in this massive data dump). Just all around bad business ethics.
 
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I see all this outrage about the people who were using Ashley Madison but the numbers aren't adding up to me. Everyone hates a cheater yet 25-30% of married people have cheated and a much higher number for people not married but in a relationship. Ashley Madison had 39 million members. So seems to me there are a lot of hypocrites since the numbers show cheating is much more common than people like to admit.
I guess I dont know how this is relevant to anything? Not every cheater signs up on that site. So of course there are people out there cheating without using a website. A cheater is a piece of shit, regardless of how they do it or what they use to do it.
 
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I would try and use this argument to their spouses...



What i am saying is if you are going to be a piece of shit, dont get mad when someone is a peice of shit to you. If you are a believer in karma, its that whole "what comes around, goes around".



So cheating ong someone you made MARRIAGE VOWS with is a "lifestyle"? Good to know. Again, be a piece of shit, get shitted on. Not sure how this concept is flying over you head.



Here is an idea...DONT BE A PIECE OF SHIT. Maybe that will help. No sure, just an idea.

If someone agrees with being a lying piece of shit, then fuck them too. Plain and simple. I have LITERALLY, no sympathy for these people. At all. Life just served you a fat ass lesson...now its your choice on what to do with it. They already made the choice to be a piece of shit. See how that turned out?

Life is fun.
I wouldn't go that far and label every single person who sleeps around while being married a piece of shit. Plenty of awesome people slept around while being married. I mean sure, ideally if you're going to sleep around you can be honest with ur spouse and have an open relationship or whatever but it doesn't always work that way. Plus there are so many different scenarios like being in love with someone and being completely convinced u would never cheat so u get married, but 10 years down the road the spouse changed a lot, doesn't give u attention is a bitch meanwhile ur banging hot secretary is staying at work late helping you with a project lol

I'm just saying maybe it's not good to generalize here and just label everyone who's done this one and the same. For the most part, yeah cheating is bad, but on the other hand every situation is different and I'm not going to fault every person who has fallen for temptation.
 
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I wouldn't go that far and label every single person who sleeps around while being married a piece of shit. Plenty of awesome people slept around while being married. I mean sure, ideally if you're going to sleep around you can be honest with ur spouse and have an open relationship or whatever but it doesn't always work that way. Plus there are so many different scenarios like being in love with someone and being completely convinced u would never cheat so u get married, but 10 years down the road the spouse changed a lot, doesn't give u attention is a bitch meanwhile ur banging hot secretary is staying at work late helping you with a project lol
Cheating and being in an open relationship are two entirely different things. That being said, sure, there were probably swingers and poly's on that site and in their case, they dont fall under that umbrella of "piece of shit". However, the site is designed FOR affairs specifically (that was their target customer)...its literally their motto.

And if you feel like you need to cheat on your spouse, a) talk to them about it or b) break it off. There is no excuse for cheating. Period. I just went through this and I can tell you, its fuckery through and through.
 

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I don't condone cheating and have made that known throughout my years here. If people are in an open relationship I have no problem with that but to be a conniving worm and go behind someone's back? It's cowardice. The site was designed for affairs, it was part of their tag line so I don't feel sorry for them or anyone else who was exposed.
 

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I wouldn't go that far and label every single person who sleeps around while being married a piece of shit. Plenty of awesome people slept around while being married. I mean sure, ideally if you're going to sleep around you can be honest with ur spouse and have an open relationship or whatever but it doesn't always work that way. Plus there are so many different scenarios like being in love with someone and being completely convinced u would never cheat so u get married, but 10 years down the road the spouse changed a lot, doesn't give u attention is a bitch meanwhile ur banging hot secretary is staying at work late helping you with a project lol

I'm just saying maybe it's not good to generalize here and just label everyone who's done this one and the same. For the most part, yeah cheating is bad, but on the other hand every situation is different and I'm not going to fault every person who has fallen for temptation.
So you sit down with your spouse and you communicate your needs/wants and how the lack of intimacy is impacting the relationship. If the person is not willing to compromise or listen then you need to tell them, in advance, what is going to happen.

In all instances it's bad in my book. Open relationships, poly, etc? No problem. Hiding like a fuckin coward and lying? Not good.
 
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I would try and use this argument to their spouses...



What i am saying is if you are going to be a piece of shit, dont get mad when someone is a peice of shit to you. If you are a believer in karma, its that whole "what comes around, goes around".



So cheating ong someone you made MARRIAGE VOWS with is a "lifestyle"? Good to know. Again, be a piece of shit, get shitted on. Not sure how this concept is flying over you head.



Here is an idea...DONT BE A PIECE OF SHIT. Maybe that will help. No sure, just an idea.

If someone agrees with being a lying piece of shit, then fuck them too. Plain and simple. I have LITERALLY, no sympathy for these people. At all. Life just served you a fat ass lesson...now its your choice on what to do with it. They already made the choice to be a piece of shit. See how that turned out?

Life is fun.

I think you're a little too emotionally involved with this . All I'm saying is people shouldn't have their private information stripped from them just because you are morally opposed to something they did. No matter how big of a slimy piece of shit they may be, I may not feel sorry for them but I still don't think either side is right.




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I think you're a little too emotionally involved with this topic.

Everybody Deserves privacy. And unless you are thrown in prison and have that privacy stripped from you from the courts, another human being has no right whatsoever to decide what is immoral and should be "exposed" just because they don't AGREE with it. I really can't make it more clear than that ,I like you man and I know your smart just cmon lol.

There's people out there who are morally opposed to alcohol and think they are a piece of shit, and if somehow a group of alcoholics private info got leaked they would be saying the same thing you are. "That's what you get, shouldn't drink" "Be a piece a shit, get shitted on"

All I'm saying is people shouldn't have their private information stripped from them just because you are morally opposed to something they did.




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They absolutely should have their privacy stripped. You knew the risks when you signed up and now the cat is out of the bag. As far as alcohol is concerned drinking is done in public 24/7. You have bars, it's sold in stores, there are laws regulating it, etc. Cheating? Not so much because you think you have an expectation of privacy but there really is none. How can you have an expectation of privacy when you're cheating on your spouse?
 
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I would try and use this argument to their spouses...
Does your rule apply to all scenarios? For same reason the death penalty is hypocritical, your logic seems to be following the same path.

What i am saying is if you are going to be a piece of shit, dont get mad when someone is a peice of shit to you. If you are a believer in karma, its that whole "what comes around, goes around".
Again fighting being a piece of shit by being a piece of shit seems hypocritical at best.

Also you are far too smart to believe in Karma.

So cheating ong some you made MARRIAGE VOWS with is a "lifestyle"? Good to know. Again, be a piece of shit, get shitted on. Not sure how this concept is flying over you head.
You are painting this black and white but the reality is far more nuanced.

What about people in loveless marriages that have agreed to maintain a home for the sake of their children?

What about people in countries where being a homosexual is punishable by death?

What about people who have agreements to be open but discreet whose information is now available to anyone?

What about people who signed up out of curiosity but never followed through with anything?

What about people who never signed up but had an old hacked e-mail used by someone else?

Many people have come out with nuanced perspectives of this complicated situation that is far different than the stereotype being presented on feminist leaning blogs of "rich abusive husband locks poor little wife in closet while he fucks everyone in town"

Here is an idea...DONT BE A PIECE OF SHIT. Maybe that will help. No sure, just an idea.

If someone agrees with being a lying piece of shit, then fuck them too. Plain and simple. I have LITERALLY, no sympathy for these people. At all. Life just served you a fat ass lesson...now its your choice on what to do with it. They already made the choice to be a piece of shit. See how that turned out?

Life is fun.
It is short sighted to cast such a broad net that all these people are pieces of shit but in any case being a piece of shit to someone who is a piece of shit is hypocritical.
 
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They absolutely should have their privacy stripped. You knew the risks when you signed up and now the cat is out of the bag. As far as alcohol is concerned drinking is done in public 24/7. You have bars, it's sold in stores, there are laws regulating it, etc. Cheating? Not so much because you think you have an expectation of privacy but there really is none. How can you have an expectation of privacy when you're cheating on your spouse?

Dude I think people are misinterpreting what I'm saying. I'm saying private info that got stolen. Just because you cheat don't mean you should have your CC info stolen and personally details blasted on the Internet.


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