We been dating for about 4 weeks. She's real sweet. Goes to church however shes not that preachin type which makes it cool she just trying to do right. Doesn't drink, doesn't do drugs, does not party. She's perfect. However I hardly hear from her. She doesn't call me unless i tell her to. It's not that she doesn't like me, she said she likes me. I met her parents. I went to church with her(she asked me to). She told everybody that i was her boyfriend. She introduces me to friends and family. I went to the movies and to homecoming with her. If im not seeing her theres no communication at all. We talk when we are together but she cant call me up when were not together? Finnally i told her whats up and she said it's nothing personal she just doesn't feell comfortible talking on the phone. She freaks out and doesn't know what to say when on the phone(thats what she told me). She perfer to talk eye to eye. So im like ok...but don't be afraid to just call me up and say whats up(what i say)... she's like ok. After school i like to come home and hear from my girl. Appearently she doesn't have to hear from her man. I feel like the woman in this relationship.. but would you have a problem if your girl wasn't calling you up and whenever you called her she end the conversation in 10 min or less with a "i'll let you go".. I supposed to do something with her on thurs but her dad wouldn't let her out on a week night. So i try to set up something on saturday and she calls me up at 3:00 to tell me that her parents aren't letting her go anywhere and that she can't talk on the phone. Now shes goin on some cosmotology competion on sunday and she works on monday. She said she'll call me when she gets back. Well it's 10:30 sunday night and i haven't heard a word from her.Im pissed cause my boy is wit his girl every day, every second and im lucky if my girl even talks on the phone with me for 15 min. I don't understand. I asked her if she don't like me and she freaked out and said no i do like you alot. so why the fuck dont you act like it?!! i gotta make all the moves... i see her at work i have to approach here, i have to call her, i have to set up something or else she wont. im soo confused. my bestfriend has known her all his life and he told me that she just shy it's nothing personal. I figure after about 4 weeks things would settle... i guess time will tell
