Man all the bullshit we go through in life is not worth it. I'm constantly seein situations whare folks is aurging and fighting with their loved ones and doing each other dirty! This world is so fucked up why live a life in misery, headache and pain........dont take life for granted, you should live every day as though it is your last day. Make the best of your life and just ignore the folks that wanna hate on you it's not worth it to try to prove to them that you are superior or "Not what they are labeling you to be". Just keep doin you and apprechiate everyone that you love and let them know you care about them on a daily basis. I would hate to have an aurgument with my best friend and that be the last time I see her! That guilt would rest upon my heart for a lifetime. This is REAL LIFE folks you never know who is next to go so PLEASE cherish your life and the people around you's lives to the fullest.........I pray that everone has a safe year! I wish you all nothing but happiness and success!
Your last day
- Thread starter Lady Lane
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i agree with you.
im sick of how people treat eachother but all you can do is leave em behind.
i have a female friend whos perants constantely abuse her verbally and put her down. the father even beats her sometimes.
this has left her with no self esteem or confidence, a drinking problem and a weed problem, mild skitzofrenia, she cant be out of a relationship at any time, etc etc.
i called up teh father and asked him simply why he says that shit to his dauhgter, all he could say was "who is this whats your name?"
so i went on to say some more things to him like how can you put your dauthger thorugh shit like that? there was silence.(i could here him shitting his pants) so in the end i just said "your daughter cause she could be dead tomrorw so think about teh things you say to her cause they could be teh last."
the next day he changed his attitude and she ended up spending christmas with her family after they said she wasnt welcome home on that day.
so it must have made him think about what he really had (or scared that i know about what he does.).. hopefully this post will do the same....
im sick of how people treat eachother but all you can do is leave em behind.
i have a female friend whos perants constantely abuse her verbally and put her down. the father even beats her sometimes.
this has left her with no self esteem or confidence, a drinking problem and a weed problem, mild skitzofrenia, she cant be out of a relationship at any time, etc etc.
i called up teh father and asked him simply why he says that shit to his dauhgter, all he could say was "who is this whats your name?"
so i went on to say some more things to him like how can you put your dauthger thorugh shit like that? there was silence.(i could here him shitting his pants) so in the end i just said "your daughter cause she could be dead tomrorw so think about teh things you say to her cause they could be teh last."
the next day he changed his attitude and she ended up spending christmas with her family after they said she wasnt welcome home on that day.
so it must have made him think about what he really had (or scared that i know about what he does.).. hopefully this post will do the same....
@Jb I have experience in this department I grew up with a father who was a HEAVY drinker! He would be so waisted he would disrespect me and talk about my mom to me and it would really dampen my soul at times......These kind of situations can either make you or brake you. You have to be thare for your friend and love her unconditionaly I know what it is like to be in her shoes. I finally had enough when my father got really drunk and rammed his truck into my car and fucked up the grill all because I told him he couldn't smoke cigarettes in my house. He was stayin with me and I kicked his ass out and put him on the street....I know it may seem harsh but like Gwen Staffani say's: I had it up to HEEEEREEE!(touching my forhead) I didn't see him for almost 2 years then I found out whare he was stayin and basically went and forgave him for all the bullshit. You have to tell her she needs to put her foot down and that is the only way that it will stop! I told my father if he wants to come to my house or be anywhare around me he couldn't drink not one sip of beer. I don't care if he smokes weed around me but all that other speed and bullshit has to go when he is in my presence! I put my foot down and for the first time on thanksgiving he spent the weekend at my house and didn't even have not one beer. Just be thare for your homegirl and tell her she needs to be strong and like I said PUT HER FOOT DOWN.........ENOUGH IS ENOUGH whether he is her father or not it is NOT right for him to dissrespect her!
NO shit, you all talk about how bad things can get. When you take the time to seize the moment, and "put your foot down". Things only get as bad as you let them. I have a line, if you cross it, i toss your ass back were i found yah, with an imprent of entent not to meet me again.
I like to try and treat each day as my last, but when you have dayz lived before today, you have to worry about tomorrow. You never KNoW when your time is up, so what can you do about it...its on you.
~Fawg
I like to try and treat each day as my last, but when you have dayz lived before today, you have to worry about tomorrow. You never KNoW when your time is up, so what can you do about it...its on you.
~Fawg
@Fawg sometimes it is hard to put your foot down when it comes to someone like your father, it's not like it's some boyfriend you can go without......It took me a while before I could do it.....But my father learned not to physically mess wit me when I was 15....he raised his fist at me and I punched his ass dead smack in his face, She's got to learn to stand up to her father and let him know enough is enough! The verbal: sometimes it is hard to control a rage filled drunk from runnin his mouth! And it hurts when it is someone as close as your own father! So you have to show some sympathy.....His friend is probablly going through different stages of emotions (mixed emotions) and it will either make her or brake her......By JB being thare for her no matter what, that will help her be able to put her foot down!