Wont live in nursing home? I'll bust ya head w/ a hammer

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mrtonguetwista

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FOSTER CITY, Calif. (AP) -- A man allegedly hit his 81-year-old father in the head with a hammer because he wanted him to live in a nursing home, authorities said Monday.

Jayantibhai Patel, 57, who lived with his father in Foster City, attacked his dad on the erroneous belief that he needed to be hospitalized before he could be admitted into a nursing home, San Mateo prosecutors said. Patel wanted to place his father in a facility so he would be free to move to India, prosecutors said.

"He was under a belief, we don't know why, that you can't go straight into a nursing home without being in the hospital," said Chief Deputy District Attorney Steve Wagstaffe. "He thought, 'I can overcome that problem. I'll put him in the hospital.'"

After the Oct. 6 attack in the bathroom, the victim was unconscious for an hour and a half before Patel called paramedics, Wagstaffe said. The man has since been released from the hospital.

Patel was being held on $500,000 bail after being charged with attempted murder, assault with a deadly weapon and elder abuse.

Wagstaffe said the attempted murder charge likely will be dropped, but he still faces a maximum of 10 years in state prison if convicted of the other charges.

Patel's attorney, Thomas Gray, did not return calls seeking comment.
 
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NiNe2FiVe said:
I work with nursing homes at work, id rather take a hammer to the head then go to one myself
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co-sign, i used to be in and out of nursing homes to pick up deceased, and they are more depressing then the hospital..
 

SRD420

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That's pretty sad, poor old man. What a punk ass son to do such a thing. I would never put my old man in a nursing home, he told me he would rather die than be in one, but I wouldn't let that happen either. LOL, he always says, "Hey now, don't forget who changed your shit diapers when you were just a baby, there will be a time when you'll have to change mine." LOL, I always call him a sick fucker when he says that, but really, if it all came down to it, I'd do it because he's my dad...my flesh and blood and I love him. I feel I owe him the world.

I noticed somethin' too, gettin' old like that is kinda like bein' born again...

Babies need to be changed
Elders need to be changed

Babies don't have teeth
Elders don't have teeth

Babies are bald
Elders are bald

Babies can't think for themselves
Elders can't think for themselves

Granted, not every elder is like this, but I've seen a lot who are...
 
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TROLL said:
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co-sign, i used to be in and out of nursing homes to pick up deceased, and they are more depressing then the hospital..
Shit I dont kno which one ya'll Been too but the one I work at is anything but dead.. They be driving there bentleys n mercedes. They have big ass partys n every Friday they got happy hour haha.
 
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I can't see myself putting a loved one in a nursing home period.

In 1999 my mom had to go to one after brain surgery (removed a tumor), lost her memory etc etc...

I was going to quit my job, but my boss was cool about it and laid me off instead (collected unemployment).

I ened up taking my mom out of a nursing home after 2 months. The doctors said her memory would not come back, this is the way she was going to be (infant like) for the rest of her life etc etc...

I didn't care, I took her home and cared for her myself.

2 years later (2001) doctors could not explain how my mom made a complete recovery...today, she's like nothing ever happened.

She still cusses me out from time to time and when she does, I smile because that's a clear sign she's on her toes with it.
 
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Gemini said:
I can't see myself putting a loved one in a nursing home period.

In 1999 my mom had to go to one after brain surgery (removed a tumor), lost her memory etc etc...

I was going to quit my job, but my boss was cool about it and laid me off instead (collected unemployment).

I ened up taking my mom out of a nursing home after 2 months. The doctors said her memory would not come back, this is the way she was going to be (infant like) for the rest of her life etc etc...

I didn't care, I took her home and cared for her myself.

2 years later (2001) doctors could not explain how my mom made a complete recovery...today, she's like nothing ever happened.

She still cusses me out from time to time and when she does, I smile because that's a clear sign she's on her toes with it.
Nice. I'll go ahead and say I'd put my dad in a nursing home, but not my mom. My mom > my dad.
 
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this shit is hella stupid though. if he wanted to move to india he coulda hired someone to take care of his dad at home. this shit is beyond stupid. i hope this dude gets raped in jail.
 
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SHEA said:
aint nothing funny about this piece of shit.

that mother fucker, in my eyes, is just as worthless to society as a pedophile.

I hope someone bashes his head in with a fuckin hammer....see how he likes it.
ill do it.. i know where he lives, if im at my homies house and i ever see him.. BAM! right on the melon.