i had typed out some stuff but it don't matter....this is good enough:
i'd rather have someone be an asshole to me, and have me find out who my real friends are, then have nobody say shit and end up with shitty friends.
that's just me tho, i like the truth, not bullshit foo foo fairy tale shit.
*edit: thought about it and wanted to add something.
no matter where it gets said, if the right people hear it, things are going to happen to create change within the situation. i'm not trying to "cause problems" but you know what, if that's what it turns into and he finds out who's loyal to him, then so fuckin be it. him and i may not get along, but i know how it is to have liars in your camp. fuck all that noise.