Wax's Post Got Me Thinkin'...

[Doxx]

First off, RIP to Wax's boy and stay up Wax. I'll holla soon.

Second, seein' Wax say how he hadn't spoken to his boy or seen him in a while got me to thinkin'...

How many of you on here go out of your way to let your family and your real folks know that you really care about them? Do you only do it on holidays or birthdays? Do you do it at all? Do you tell your family you love them? Do you tell your homies you love them?

In the last year and a few months I had a couple situations that could have possibly taken my life (one would have been instant). I realized after both situations that I don't let people I care about know that I care. Even my family. For some reason all that stuff stays inside of me. But for a while after these things happened I made sure I let everyone I cared about know that I loved them 'cause I realized how quick I coulda been in the dirt. But I just realized I've slipped right back into not letting people know how much they mean to me.

Not to preach or anything, but hopefully this will get everyone thinkin' about expressin' themselves a little more. I don't mean you gotta be a snivelin' weenie always tellin' people you love them. I just mean, let it be known every once in a while.

Mods: If this needs to be moved, feel free. I just put it here so more people would see it.

 

[Kp]

I feel that..

Good lookin' out homie

 

[Pimperoni]

Leave this thread here.... Good Topic Doxx

I lost my best friend today . . . . they still haven't found his body but they gave up on the search. It's the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with, especially because of his personality. He was always doing funny shit so without him around it's going to take a lot of adjustment. I just sit here and think of all the great times we've had.... seeing pictures of us having fun is the worst. I wish I could have said goodbye.... I love that kid

If you want to read about him, it's on the front page of the local paper; here's the link
http://www.upgroup.com/gazette/loclnews.html

 

[YOUNG K9]

i feel

thats some real shit homie, i be feeling the same way. Like if I died tomorrow would I regret not spending more time with the people i love and not telling them how much i love and care for them, hell yeah!! especially moms and pops cause they brought me into this muthafucka and its like I dont show them enough love, just kinda live day to day. Lately ive been tryna stay close to my family and let them know how i feel cause its not good to hold all those emotions in cause it will build up so deep that it will be so hard to let those feelings out. but yeah, i hella feel you on the subject, cause when u do release that emotion that shit be feeling hella good after. Very refreshing. Even though its hard for many of you to talk with your moms and pops (like me) just try and sit down and have a real talk with them like they your homie, just have a convo bout anything and youll feel light and will be better connected mentally and physically. Ive been holdin shit in for almost all my life and finally letting loose my thoughts these past months. yall try that shit, it will make you into a more stressfree and alive person. cause most of the feelings you hold in has to do alot about loved ones. let that shit go and express yourself. stay up yall.


k9

 

[45Yr Old Virgin]

nah i don't give a fuck

 

[bayGIANTS]

this shit is hella real and I be thinkin bout this all the time. there are people that I care about hella bad but dont try hard enough to keep in touch and let them know. In some cases I just feel too proud and think I should wait for them to call me because they seem to make less of an effort but regardless it is YOUR OWN job to keep in touch with people you care about.

I first started realizing this when my basketball coach passed away a couple of months ago. when someone dies unexpectadly it really opens your eyes. Its just a shame that something like that has to happen for you to make the extra effort.

I'm gonna let everyone I care about know it in the next couple of days and truly try harder on a regualr basis because you never know when someone is feeling hella down and one phone call could bring a much needed smile to their face.

 

[Locct925]

REAL SHIT RIGHT HERE! SUMTHIN FOR EVERYBODY TO THINK ABOUT!

 

[A-WAX]

REAL TALK,I GOT STUPID LOVE FOR ANY FAN OF MY MUSICK!!!!I WOULD RIDE FOR A REAL A-WAX FAN!!!!!

 

[Locahontas]

I feel this thread to the fullest...

A couple years ago, my best friend got stabbed in his neck by his baby's mom. He lost so much blood that he died for 2 minutes before they brought him back to life. When I saw him in the hospital hooked up to all those machines I realized that I never told him that I love him. Ever since then, I tell him everytime I talk to him (he's locked up now). And the same thing happened with my cousin Rob. The last time I saw him was on a Friday. He got on my nerves real bad so I told him I hated him (didn't really hte him though, you know how that goes). That was the last time I saw him alive cuzz he got killed the following Monday. That really woke me up. So I started tellin my other cousin Jaleel I loved him everytime I saw him. And he would tell me he loved me back. (We were real fucked up about Rob). I'm so glad that me & Jaleel got the chance to express our feelings to each other. Cuzz 6 weeks after Rob got killed, Jaleel got killed too. At least I can say that he didn't leave this world not knowing how I really felt.

 

[Mak-X]

I let my family know I care bout them, I ain't worried bout them turnin shiesty, most my relatives are waay older than me, my younger cousin he's the only one besides me that's been involved with the streets. Everyone else is just straight workin 9-5 family people. But my cousin is a shiest, he backstabbed me this past summer something awful. I spoke to him at my Great Grandmother funeral last month but since then it's fuck it. I don't and won't forgive him for what he did, he can fuck off.

As far as homies are concerned, it all depends how close I am to them, I'll back up any of my homboys/homegirls without hesitation but a few I watch. Never know when they could turn on me.

Plain and simple if you got love and respect for me then I'll give it right back, but if not then fuck it.

 

[SPORADIC]

@Doxx
Now,you got me thinking..You're right about everything you said..I'm thinking bout how me n my brotha usee to argue n fight over little stupid BS and now he's dead and gone and now that shit is a heavy burden on my shoulders..I never hugged him and told him I loved him and now he's gon...Maaannnnnn,life is 2-short for BS with loved ones..It aint even worth it...Live it to the fullest.....man,I'm out