how many of yall on here have a partner that has a pretty fucked up past? like any kind of shit that you would trip off...such as slept with a good amount of people, fucked with a bad drug for awhile, any kind of shit like that? my question is what helps you get past all that and just leave it behind in the past? i'm having trouble doing that with my girl right now i dunno why certain shit about her past just eats away at me and sometimes i take it out on her and that aint fair to her. i wish i could just stop trippin about her past...