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Ambition209

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Ok well my boy is homeless once again. He was livin wit some chick he keeps drinkin all the time and they fight... thats they business whatever...
thing is everytime they would fight he calls me at 2 am like ayyy pick me up blood come on i need this favor yada yada...
ok so he got permenently kicked out of that spot and taggin along wit me for a few days whatever it's nothin i help a homie out.. so then he gets in a spot with some new people and they give him a chance to stay there as long as he contributes... so he got a little job 2 weeks ago , man i even bought him some shoes cuz he needed black shoes for this job...
i gave him rides to get his social security card you know what i mean just did shit lookin out... now this dude has already called into work lost that job.. he was supposed to go apply for foodstamps or somethin for the household he was stayin at.. didnt do it.. they already sick of him and now he kicked out of there... who does he call?? me.. Now i don't have a problem bein there for homies cuz i known him for a long time and it's love but man this shit is continously happenin wit this cat and he thinks he can fall back and just call me like he gon stay wit me or if i go to anywhere you know he stuck wit me.. he ain't got a ride, no money, nothin... I mean im your boy but i aint your fuckin daddy you feel me.. im startin to lose all pity cuz he had a gang of chances to get stable and he keeps slippin so what do you all think about situations like this ??
 
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Ambition209

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ITS FREAKS said:
just let him know - ay homie - this is the last time i can help u man... i feel like ur taking advantage of our friendship & i love u bruh, but u need to get your shit together
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good advice and I pretty much did this last time not in those exact words but yeah..... and good advice too on not enabling him to think he can always turn to me when he gets himself into shit.......
 
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ESFCE

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ColdBlooded said:
Stop enabling
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tru shit...if he knows in his mind "oh if i fuck up i got my boy to fall back on" hes never gonna get back on his feet. it seems this is a one sided friendship and you need to set him straight and tell him theres only so much you can help, he is a grown man and has to stand on his own two.
 
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Ambition209

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ESFCE said:
tru shit...if he knows in his mind "oh if i fuck up i got my boy to fall back on" hes never gonna get back on his feet. it seems this is a one sided friendship and you need to set him straight and tell him theres only so much you can help, he is a grown man and has to stand on his own two.
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straight up.. i appreciate the feedback cuz I was kinda feelin like a dick a little bit cuz yesterday i pretty much told him i cant help do what u gotta do im busy get at me later... i know he probably was blowin me up but my phones screen is shattered i cant see caller ID for like 3 days and i was layin up wit a girl last night so i just turned my phone off and threw it in the corner like fuck everyone im bout to relax......
 
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Ambition209 said:
straight up.. i appreciate the feedback cuz I was kinda feelin like a dick a little bit cuz yesterday i pretty much told him i cant help do what u gotta do im busy get at me later... i know he probably was blowin me up but my phones screen is shattered i cant see caller ID for like 3 days and i was layin up wit a girl last night so i just turned my phone off and threw it in the corner like fuck everyone im bout to relax......
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You about to see if he REALLY is your friend or not. If he get's the point and understands...then cool. If he trips because you aint being his crutch this time. Then there's a problem.
 
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Ambition209

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Doberman said:
You about to see if he REALLY is your friend or not. If he get's the point and understands...then cool. If he trips because you aint being his crutch this time. Then there's a problem.
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yeah i feel that.. but i mean i cant paint a perfect picture of the whole situation but you right if he gets mad then he just mad cuz he aint gettin nothin out of me
 
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You got a big heart Homie, no doubt.

I've gone through a few of those. Some Homies will get on their feet & walk ya feel me? ...so never close the door on a Homie, BUT! there are some that just take advantage of a situation. They begin to take kindness for weakness.

I had a Homie like that and he brought his lady over too. I woke his ass up early in the morning and took his ass job hunting made sure he filled them applications. We get back home about 4 P.M. and his bitch is still laid up in my living room sleeping!

2 day's later he pullin' little stunts like dodging job oppertunities, so at around dinner time I told him & his lady to kick rocks.

A part of me care a shit load, but if I allowed my emotions to carry me through this...I'd be fucked. Sometimes you just got to think with your brain & not your heart Homeboy.

I know they always give this sad story about nobody gives them a chance yada yada yada, but hey! You already done did that ya feel?

Send him on his way and trust me Homie...if he ever get's his shit together, he'll thank you for it later.
 
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Ambition209

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Gemini said:
You got a big heart Homie, no doubt.

I've gone through a few of those. Some Homies will get on their feet & walk ya feel me? ...so never close the door on a Homie, BUT! there are some that just take advantage of a situation. They begin to take kindness for weakness.

I had a Homie like that and he brought his lady over too. I woke his ass up early in the morning and took his ass job hunting made sure he filled them applications. We get back home about 4 P.M. and his bitch is still laid up in my living room sleeping!

2 day's later he pullin' little stunts like dodging job oppertunities, so at around dinner time I told him & his lady to kick rocks.

A part of me care a shit load, but if I allowed my emotions to carry me through this...I'd be fucked. Sometimes you just got to think with your brain & not your heart Homeboy.

I know they always give this sad story about nobody gives them a chance yada yada yada, but hey! You already done did that ya feel?

Send him on his way and trust me Homie...if he ever get's his shit together, he'll thank you for it later.
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thanks man appreciate it for real
 
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_N9na_

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He will never gonna make it alone, if you always help him..
It will be always the same..
I think he´s grown up, so he must do it by himself, thats the only chance he has..
 
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