I'm late to this party, but in my defense I read the first 2 or 3 pages when it first went up. I been extremely busy with life in general, but come back and find 68 pages deep in here like WTF?!?!?!?! LOL! smh!
I read through a few, but gave up. I really don't have the time for it, but like most threads in here, they start off as a positive and derail LOL!
What I have gathered is, there is no need to give full explinations to people who are not part of your everyday / real life. Shit! I don't explain myself to people I know in real life. What most don't understand or what they assume is none of their concern in the first place. End of disscussion. If I'm in a mode to get somewhere or get something done, I have no time to stop to argue with anybody and try to convince them to see my point of view or like me. 'It's not their jouney, fuck em',' is my motto.
That's separate from having an open disscussion and seeing somebody else's point of view to come to an understanding, but there is also a point where you draw the line. And I don't mean calling anybody out for a fade. I mean, let people be in their own opinion. Some have a sense of value and make sense, some are just stubborn want to be right and there is no sense in trying to convince them otherwise.