I'm not really looking for any replies, just need to let out something I've been thinking alot about lately...sorry if it doesn't make any sense to you.....
Anyway, a friend of mine who I've know for about 8 years totally fucked me over. We had an apartment together...us and his girl. Everything was cool for the most part. We were real close, we did everything together. If I wasn't with him, they would be like, "Where is so and so"? (don't want to say his name). And vice versa if they saw him and I wasn't there. Anyway, we were going out alot drinking, cruisin', pickin' up on girls...whatever. His girl would always trip, but she delt with it until she got pregnant. Well my friend still wanted to go out...so we went out, every weekend. And they would fight all fuckin' time. Eventually, I figured it was time for me to move on. Not away from my friend, but just out of the apartment. All the fighting, plus her having a kid, it wasn't my ideal living situation. So I gave them my notice that I was gonna move out...almost two months notice. Then my friend invited me to go away for the weekend down to L.A., so I went. When I came back that Sunday night...everything that they owned was gone, including some of my shit. I tried calling around but couldn't find them. I figured they were moving out, but I wanted to talk to them and find out what was going on. I tried calling my friends job...he didn't work there anymore. I tried calling his gir's work...she didn't work there anymore. I went to work on Monday, came back, and some of the dishes and other stuff was gone...I was like "What the Fuck!"...they were fucking avoiding me. So I left a note on their bedroom door asking them to call me or leave me a note back...something. Came back from work the next day...same thing. Shit missing! To make an already long story short...they cut out on me, left me to pay the last two months rent, plus damages to the apartment that THEY DID, and I haven't seen, talked to them since. I don't understand what the hell happened. This was my close friend, always had each others back, and he just cuts out on me without talking to me, or leaving a note? Nothing? I'm pissed off, but hurt more than anything. Supposedly now he's right down the street at his Mom's place, but I still haven't seen him. I thougt about fuckin' up his car, going over there and beating his ass, but I just can't do it. This was friend, and I can't bring myself to do those type of things to someone I was so close to. People tell me that I should do SOMETHING, but I can't. It's been about 6-7 months since this has happened and it still bugs me. We had alot of mutual friends and I don't talk to anyone anymore...other than two close friends who I've known virtually my whole life and my girlfriend. This experience has really made me take a step back and view my life and who my true friends are. When I see some of the people I used to hang out with they ask me where I've been and why I don't call, but I know they are just acquaintances, not true friends. I'm cool with them, but I now know who my true friends are. Maybe one day me and so and so will see each other and I can find out why he did what he did. That's all I really want, an explanation.
This may seem trivial to some of you, but it takes alot for me to become friends with someone, and when I do become friends with them it's for along time. Everyone I know I've know for a minimum of 7 years...except for my lady, so it hurts when something like this happens.
Anways, sorry for taking up the space.....
Anyway, a friend of mine who I've know for about 8 years totally fucked me over. We had an apartment together...us and his girl. Everything was cool for the most part. We were real close, we did everything together. If I wasn't with him, they would be like, "Where is so and so"? (don't want to say his name). And vice versa if they saw him and I wasn't there. Anyway, we were going out alot drinking, cruisin', pickin' up on girls...whatever. His girl would always trip, but she delt with it until she got pregnant. Well my friend still wanted to go out...so we went out, every weekend. And they would fight all fuckin' time. Eventually, I figured it was time for me to move on. Not away from my friend, but just out of the apartment. All the fighting, plus her having a kid, it wasn't my ideal living situation. So I gave them my notice that I was gonna move out...almost two months notice. Then my friend invited me to go away for the weekend down to L.A., so I went. When I came back that Sunday night...everything that they owned was gone, including some of my shit. I tried calling around but couldn't find them. I figured they were moving out, but I wanted to talk to them and find out what was going on. I tried calling my friends job...he didn't work there anymore. I tried calling his gir's work...she didn't work there anymore. I went to work on Monday, came back, and some of the dishes and other stuff was gone...I was like "What the Fuck!"...they were fucking avoiding me. So I left a note on their bedroom door asking them to call me or leave me a note back...something. Came back from work the next day...same thing. Shit missing! To make an already long story short...they cut out on me, left me to pay the last two months rent, plus damages to the apartment that THEY DID, and I haven't seen, talked to them since. I don't understand what the hell happened. This was my close friend, always had each others back, and he just cuts out on me without talking to me, or leaving a note? Nothing? I'm pissed off, but hurt more than anything. Supposedly now he's right down the street at his Mom's place, but I still haven't seen him. I thougt about fuckin' up his car, going over there and beating his ass, but I just can't do it. This was friend, and I can't bring myself to do those type of things to someone I was so close to. People tell me that I should do SOMETHING, but I can't. It's been about 6-7 months since this has happened and it still bugs me. We had alot of mutual friends and I don't talk to anyone anymore...other than two close friends who I've known virtually my whole life and my girlfriend. This experience has really made me take a step back and view my life and who my true friends are. When I see some of the people I used to hang out with they ask me where I've been and why I don't call, but I know they are just acquaintances, not true friends. I'm cool with them, but I now know who my true friends are. Maybe one day me and so and so will see each other and I can find out why he did what he did. That's all I really want, an explanation.
This may seem trivial to some of you, but it takes alot for me to become friends with someone, and when I do become friends with them it's for along time. Everyone I know I've know for a minimum of 7 years...except for my lady, so it hurts when something like this happens.
Anways, sorry for taking up the space.....