Irocc..believe me I understand the reason to reply, Im wondering if it aint better to ignore the negativity....Its hard I know personally that I hold back every other day. I think it is all entertaining, but feeding into it is fueling the fire. Lets just say I do not take either of your sides....On some grown man shit, what type of benefits are there to walking into your hood? I mean is their a special tax rebate at the end of the year...Does some dap and some approval of the youngsters benefit the bank account...I do not agree with Mitchy much, but when he stated He did not care where someone was from if you cool with him..he is cool with you..I mean thats just basic fundamentals of being grown up..there comes a time when we get to an age where priorities change and with responsibilities such as having children..a mortgage or rent to pay comes a whole new outlook on life. What is really sad is The world is big, and visiting other countries is a wake up call to how insignificant the liitle piece of land called San Diego is compared to the whole puzzle..SanDiego may be home and to live or grow up will definitly breed some pride, but when will others learn that life is short and much more to it?