to me personally being real is being honest... not making fake shit up. like for example: on celly cel's song "it's going down" he talks about smoking weed with friends and betting 5 dollars a game on sega genesis, now i classify that as real music since ive been in that situation a ton of times. when a rapper starts talking about being invincible, having all the women and money in the world, killing anyone he feels like killing, i classify that as fake...thats not living in reality, and anyone who can relate to those type of lyrics is not living in reality either. anyone really living like that needs a reality check, because NOBODY is invincible. its definatly possible to be fake and entertaining at the same time though, is al apacino really like tony montanna in real life? no. but scarface is still a great movie. for some people scarface may seem very real to them because they are living a similar life, but the moment they think that they ARE tony montanna, (and by that i mean they think tony and themselves are the same person) that is when they are no longer in touch with whats real and whats fake. if someone rapped about selling coke... ok, thats pretty real (if theyre really selling it or have sold it in the past), but the moment they glorify it like its some shit to be proud of... thats kinda fake...
but no definition of it is set in stone, so im just giving my 2 cents