How you u guys cope with Death?

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My primo David died almost 2 years ago, he was my closeist homboy, mi carnal, my roaddog what ever you wanna call it thats what he was. Ive never gone a day without thinking about him, like bout when we were kids or when we when to school, or how we never spoke for a year b4 he died............. Shit still kills me, and its hard to belive hes dead. Not that i dont believ hes dead, but his being or what made him a person. Its kinda hard to explane, what i mean i gusse is his soul or his sense of life....... I dont know all i know is i would trade mostly anything to be abel to see him agine.................... Never take you familia or homies for granted, never let stupied shit or arguments get between u. Dame, 2 fucking years........... Miss u David....... RIP

How u guys coping with ur loss of loved ones.?
 

Nuttkase

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One of my really close homeboys died 4 months ago on the 14th. Got murdered over some straight up bullshit. The way I deal with it is to remember the times you had. Good or bad, thats time ya'll spent together. Just like you I hadn't seen my boy in about 8 months. I cried the day i found out he died and the day of his funeral. But I try not to let those emotions get to me. I know he would want me to move on and keep on striving. Every 14th of the month i pour out a whole 40 of Mickys Ice for him ( I can't stand the shit but it was his fav.) I don't know why but that sort of helps me. I don't pour it all at once I pour it as I drink my 40 of Olde E. I guess its almost like we are drinking together again. I don't know. But just keep your cousins memory alive and remember the times you shared. Keep in mind that the two of you will meet again. I don't know if that helped you homie but thats how I get by. RIP to your cousin Pelon. Stay Strong homeboy.


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PELON X4 said:
My primo David died almost 2 years ago, he was my closeist homboy, mi carnal, my roaddog what ever you wanna call it thats what he was. Ive never gone a day without thinking about him, like bout when we were kids or when we when to school, or how we never spoke for a year b4 he died............. Shit still kills me, and its hard to belive hes dead. Not that i dont believ hes dead, but his being or what made him a person. Its kinda hard to explane, what i mean i gusse is his soul or his sense of life....... I dont know all i know is i would trade mostly anything to be abel to see him agine.................... Never take you familia or homies for granted, never let stupied shit or arguments get between u. Dame, 2 fucking years........... Miss u David....... RIP

How u guys coping with ur loss of loved ones.?
:classic: I lost my mother on St. Patricks Day 2003,....... It depends on how close you were. If you two were close, then it's going to take some time, but you have to remember the good times you had. That's what I try to do. I have my family, friends, my man. (I am Slowpoke's lady, B. Yogi) Number #1 always trust in God, cause without him I don't know where I would be. Do you believe in God? As long as you believe, everything is going to be alright, call on HIM, HE'LL be there for you.


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death

on coping with death.... hmmmm good question.... my man died last satuday 01/03.... and i don't know what the fuck to do.... i wish there was a specific way to deal.... i miss him sooooo much . it's likle half of me is gone. it was my kids and him that made me whole. i miss his smile , his hugs, his fuck everything. i am coming to termes with what happened to him, but what kills me most is i can't hug him, call him , kiss him, nothing .... that's what hurts the most....RIP VICIOUS VIN.... CORTLAND AVENUE PLAYAS, I'LL ALWAYS LOVE U.....LALA
 
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RIP is just a term for the dead... At least the way I percieve it, is that it's just something you wish for the soul of the deceased. You're basically asking for their soul to be clean and their "concience" (for lack of a better term) to be free of any troubles so they can enjoy their time on the "other side" with no burden...

Or maybe in a way... It means "Chill out homie, I'll be with you as soon as I'm done here..."
 
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alcohol, pot, and whatever else you can get your hands on...no but seriously the only thing that makes you feel better is time..but the pain never really goes away just gets smaller..some people need god some dont....god has no place in my life, does not even excist...and im getting along just fine
 
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Fortunately, I haven't experienced a lot of death of family or friends, and I am thankful for that. Death is just a part of life and you have to accept that in one way or another. I just try to think to myself, that everything happens for a reason.
 
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Yea drugs have been playin a biger role in my life, the alcohol dont help tho... It just makes me hurt even more.. Me and him were tighter then fuck, like brothers.......... I always used to think he would just always just be there, but hes not. I fucking hate death, i dont know what i would do if i lose anyone else. The only one thats holdin me toghter that makein me not go crazy is my wife................ God rest my primos soul.