How many of yall got BABY MAMA DRAMA?

[verbal kevlar]

Ain't this a bitch?? I'm a female, and I have a child with my man right now. But we just got back together after 3 years of seperation.

I must say that when I left him, not once did I go after him for shit. We were young, (him 19 and myself 17) and he wasn't ready to grow up yet...So I took it upon myself to handle business....

That shouldn't be the case for all females, but DAMN, how many hoes out there are RAPING their exes for $$ and anything else they can grasp?

We're going thru this right now with my man's ex. She was getting child support from my old man the whole time after they broke up, but under the table....WHY did this bitch go to court and say she never got shit?? All because she found out that he was dating me again, and she got jealous....

I swear man...I hate jealous ass bitches!!

pS...by the way, she tried to take this shit to court, and I got my man a pitbull for a lawyer...needless to say, that bitch is getting LESS than what she was before. Just goes to show, jealous hoes never get chose.....

 

[FastLane/S::G]

That shouldn't be the case for all females, but DAMN, how many hoes out there are RAPING their exes for $$ and anything else they can grasp?

We're going thru this right now with my man's ex. She was getting child support from my old man the whole time after they broke up, but under the table....WHY did this bitch go to court and say she never got shit?? All because she found out that he was dating me again, and she got jealous....

i dunno, but that sure is some punk ass shit.... if a broad ever did that to me, she'd come up missing.... and they aint ever gone find her punk ass unless they grab some shovels start diggin somewhere in Death Valley.... kill a hoe kill a hoe, fuck that bitch! :devious:

don't forget to wear your rubbers, y'all.... it's only okay to not wear em when you got a wedding ring on.... real chop

 

[MeloTrauma]

Thats why its cheaper to keep her.

I dont understand it...there is only one way to get pregnant and SO MANY MORE ways to NOT get pregnant... i dont believe in "accidents." If a baby is gonna cause drama, dont fuckin have one

 

[Mook Mangla P]

Sounds like a certain fella is in dire need of a pack of rubbers, or better yet, a vasectomy.

 

[Mook Mangla P]

and I got my man a pitbull for a lawyer[/B]

This is really pathetic. Someone please tell me that this is Shoehei or Lee Zilla or something, cause if this broad is for real, then i have completely lost what little faith in humanity I had left.

 

[Locahontas]

^^^Why would that make you lose your faith in humanity?

But yeah, that is the bullshit. My friend always complains about how he never gets to see his daughter. So I told him to go down & volunteer to pay child support so he will have guaranteed visitation. But NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, he doesn't wanna do all that. So I guess he doesn't really wanna see his daughter, does he?

 

[Mook Mangla P]

^^^Why would that make you lose your faith in humanity?

The fact that she has to hire a lawyer for the impulsive sperm-dropper in question is really pathetic. Dude dropped the load, he should at least be able to drop the cash...

 

[Locahontas]

^^^oh

 

[verbal kevlar]

The fact that she has to hire a lawyer for the impulsive sperm-dropper in question is really pathetic. Dude dropped the load, he should at least be able to drop the cash...

You're creating assumptions on a case that you know nothing about. Never once did I imply that he declined to drop any cash. What I DID say is that she LIED about getting any at all. And since you seem to know so much about it, having what little information that you do, can you also tell me how dropping $900/month oppose to $1100 is not cash?

Your little bitch ass comments show nothing but pure ignorance and unfamiliarity to the situation. You automatically assume that there is a lack of responsibility over here. You're absolutely wrong, because the reason he HAD to get a lawyer was so that he could SEE his daughter...

There's more bitches out there that are trying to collect a check, while depriving the father of seeing their child, than you think. We fought for custody before child support...the child support issue was just some bullshit that she was lying about....

I suggest that you get all of the facts straight, before passing judgment on shit I'm sure that you do not understand, as well as know nothing about....

 

[Mook Mangla P]

You automatically assume that there is a lack of responsibility over here.

He's got two kids by two different women, and has to have his broad pay for his lawyer, and I'm ASSUMING that there's a lack of responsiblity? Please. That sounds about as irresponsible as it gets.

You're absolutely wrong, because the reason he HAD to get a lawyer was so that he could SEE his daughter....

The reason HE had to get a lawyer? I thought YOU got the lawyer for him? Don't you find it the least bit strange that YOU have to hire a lawyer so that your man can see the kid he had by another woman? Shouldn't this compulsive sperm-dropper handle that shit himself?

You're creating assumptions on a case that you know nothing about.....

I agree that I am making assumptions, but they're based on the information you've given. I didn't pull them out of thin air. And I'm not really trying to rag on you. You seem pretty sincere. But this situation just seems really pathetic. this guy must be UBER-STUD for you to put up with such bullshit. I mean, when you were a little girl, did you think to yourself, "I can't wait to meet a man, have his kid, and then pay for his lawyer fees so that he can see the kid that he knocked some other broad up with." I figured your own child could benefit from that money that you spent on a lawyer.
So tell me:
What's so special about this guy?
I just want to know so that next time i want to completely take advantage of a woman, i'll know what tactics to use.

 

[MeloTrauma]

^^^^^ god damn, lol

 

[verbal kevlar]

He's got two kids by two different women, and has to have his broad pay for his lawyer, and I'm ASSUMING that there's a lack of responsiblity? Please. That sounds about as irresponsible as it gets.

At what part of my post did I state that I PAID for anything??? What I DID say is that I found him a good lawyer. And for your information, he HAD a lawyer before, what I had implied is that I found him a BETTER ONE. And that's what you do for someone you've known and been with for over 6 years.....you're assumptions keep getting further and further away from the truth.

I agree that I am making assumptions, but they're based on the information you've given

That's incorrect, because I never ONCE stated that I had PAID for anything, nor did I state that he never supported his daughter financially. Yet YOU have assumed that both of those are true..... if your assumptions did not come out of the air, then they must have come out your ass....

What's so special about this guy?

Their is no need for me to validate, discuss, or even attempt to explain this answer to you. The thread was about mothers who take advantage of good fathers, period. Not the specialty of my relationship...

hmmm...the more and more I read your comments, I wonder if this particular subject has maybe "hit home" and that's why you've taken the automatically defensive roll???

 

[Mook Mangla P]

hmmm...the more and more I read your comments, I wonder if this particular subject has maybe "hit home" and that's why you've taken the automatically defensive roll???

Actually, this subject hits FAR from home. I have the good sense to use a wonderful invention called a "prophylactic" so that not only do i avoid having multiple children by multiple women, but I don't have any children at all. No lawyers fees, no babys mama drama.
Like I said, Verbal, you seem pretty sincere. I'm sure you want the best for your child. What gets me is the thought process that goes through the heads of some men.
If he was a cat, he would have been neutered already...

 

[verbal kevlar]

alright then....you stated your opinion. Being that you do not know me personally, and there is no way that I could possibly make you familiar with my situation, this needs to be dropped.

Lets leave it at different strokes for different folks, and close this thread.

thx...

 

[miggidy]

Thats why its cheaper to keep her.

I dont understand it...there is only one way to get pregnant and SO MANY MORE ways to NOT get pregnant... i dont believe in "accidents." If a baby is gonna cause drama, dont fuckin have one

It's not always like that. Some people change after a while.
You think everything is going right, you marry or have a kid, what ever.
Then your chick turns into a psycho bitch, or a dude into some crazy fuck head.

Sometimes, it ain't the person's fault....
People can flip real quick.... And with no warning....

 

[MeloTrauma]

^^^^ Yeah, but she said dude was 19 and she was 17. Who the hell is responsible enough for kids at 19 and 17? But also, by the time your 19 and 17, you already know how to NOT get pregnant. It dont take a rocket scientist to figure out that having a baby at 17 is a bad decision all around.