HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH PEOPLE THAT BEG????

[SMOKIELOCS]

NORMALY I DONT GIVE PEOPLE MONEY.ILL ASK EM IF THEY WANT A SANDWICH AND ILL BUY IT FOR EM.ALOT OF TIMES THEY WOULD RATHER GO HUNGRY.SHIT IM NOT GUNNA SUPPORT ANYONE HABBITS BUT MY OWN.THERE WAS THIS YOUNG WHITE COUPLE WITH A 3YEAR OLD LIL GIRL CAME INTO MY STORE AND WERE TRYING 2 CASH A PERSONAL CHECK.WE COULDNT CASH IT.SO THE LADY STARTS CRYING TALKING BOUT THEY JUST GOT IN FROM RENO,THE NORMAL B.S .SO I FELT BAD FOR THE LIL GIRL N GAVE HER A COUPLE BUCKS N SENT EM ON THERE WAY 2 WALMART 2 BOUNCE A BUNK CHECK.DAM AINT SUNDAYS FUN.:dead:

 

[Infantry Elite]

i just ignore them...i get hella irritated when i pay any kind of attention to them, then i feel obligated to sit and listen to their spill about what they need, or why they dont have anything


homeless people that beg for money INSIDE of fast food places should be arrested, that shit is hella disrespectful.

 

[timebomb]

Lol that's emotional blackmail...btw I could do with a new keyboard and will be forwarding paypal details for you support my cause asap my long lost friend..may peace be upon u brother...

 

[DubbC415]

i saw a dumbass chick give a bum a dollar on market st. one time, but she was giving him a lecture about "spending it in the right place" while she was handing it to him. like bitch, its a fuckin DOLLAR!



also you can TRY but you cant give a bum money and then tell them what to do with it. just hand em the money and do it movin.

 

[BROWNDNA]

i just ignore them...i get hella irritated when i pay any kind of attention to them, then i feel obligated to sit and listen to their spill about what they need, or why they dont have anything


homeless people that beg for money INSIDE of fast food places should be arrested, that shit is hella disrespectful.

That shit its wrong bro.

Is it going to kill you to give them some spare change and be on your way.

I do see where you coming from about the restaurant thing because i wouldnt want to be eating with my family and have a homeless come up to us asking fro money while we eating.

But going as far as arresting them for something like that, never that.

 

[BIGCHILL]

maaaaan i just went through that bullshit at the corner store...

a dude and i guess his wife or what ever asked me for some change cause their kid had a fever need some medicine.i brought them a 1.00 pack of tylenol ripped it open i told them to give that to their kid.ol boy looked at me like he wanted to kill me hahahahaaa went back to the store a few hours later and the dude behind the counter told me they was trying to get a refund on the tylenol hahahahaha muthafuckaz.

 

[Infantry Elite]

That shit its wrong bro.

Is it going to kill you to give them some spare change and be on your way.

I do see where you coming from about the restaurant thing because i wouldnt want to be eating with my family and have a homeless come up to us asking fro money while we eating.

But going as far as arresting them for something like that, never that.

standing outside of the door will get them the same results, but will make it so they arent being hella disrespectful. and i didnt mean they should literally be arrested, i just mean they should be removed from the place, and if they refuse to stop goin in, then be arrested

i dont have a problem giving homeless people change sometimes, or some food here and there. but financially im not in the position to do it all the time, so i just ignore them.

 

[NiNe2FiVe]

I think it depends...Folks asking for change usually come in like 3 variations...

1. They doing something goofy, in SF tellin jokes, doin a little dance or something - If somebody can make me laugh, Ill spare some change, up to a dollar.

2. Theyre outside somewhere, or at an on ramp just standing - 99% I just ignore them, rarely if I have some change in my pocket or cupholder, maybe...

3. Theyre inside somewhere, Jack in the Box or whatever - Fuck that. Keep your ass outside. One time me and my girl were out drinking in SF, stopped at a Jack to sober up and this homeless dude is walkin by puts his hand on her and asks for change I stood up hella quick and shoved him over a table and told him if he didnt leave I was gonna beat the shit out of him.

...cool story bro...

 

[xraidedloc831]

If the person begging is asking for it for food as I am going into Jack in the box or what not, I usually say sure I will get you something inside np. Normally they cool and appreciate it but sometimes they get mad and just wanted the money. This is how I siff through the BS. I am not cold hearted I believe in Karma big time but also I feel bums have alot of options to get them selfs of the street. Many many programs and shelters but for the most part they are lazy and would rather beg as the money coming in is better. I remember a few years ago my dad who came from nothing with 10 other siblings that his mom had to feed, offered this bum a job who was asking him for money. The bum said "Hell NO!, I get over 500 a day from doing this" and didn't say thanks or anything. Even if the person begging is not a bum. The most common is the BS stories I get while pumping gas. I hear, "hey man can I have a couple bucks to put in the tank as I am trying to get back to the bay area blah blah" Normally in this situation if I have it I will say "Sure what number you on and ill put down $5 bucks for you" In this case I would say 95% of the time they get mad and walk away lol.

 

[DubbC415]

im a semi-bum, i wish someone would offer me a job

 

[HawaiianBoss808]

lol you ever see the guy that says hes from out of town and his car broke down and he needs some gas money and when he gets back he will send you a check lol iv seen 2 diffrent guys tell me that same story outside of a best buy

 

[FDS]

i had some dude do that when i was eating Pho one day and i thought it was HELLA rude. like dude, im eating, leave me the fuck alone right now.

 

[lil pk]

alot of my family are truck drivers and when you're parked motherfuckers will come and try to clean your rims and tanks, etc. the other day in south carolina a tweaker came up to our truck and knocked on the door 3 in the morning when we were tired as fuck and started arguing with us and told us we said a few days ago he could do some work...I told that him to go away so he went to the back of the truck and started pissing on the back wheels so when he came back to the door to argue some more I hit him with the door right in the head and that motherfucker was on his way. lol

 

[xraidedloc831]

maaaaan i just went through that bullshit at the corner store...

a dude and i guess his wife or what ever asked me for some change cause their kid had a fever need some medicine.i brought them a 1.00 pack of tylenol ripped it open i told them to give that to their kid.ol boy looked at me like he wanted to kill me hahahahaaa went back to the store a few hours later and the dude behind the counter told me they was trying to get a refund on the tylenol hahahahaha muthafuckaz.

LMAO!!!

 

[NAMO]

i always give what I can, I don't descriminate IRL.

 

[DeepEastBeast]

I read bout 2 sentences and I respond with this, any nigga that beg me for money I'ma slap.

 

[DubbC415]

No joke back when i had my minvan (it got stolen by Lake Merced, right outside my dorm at SFSU) i was giving my homie a ride to the Oakland Airport and we stopped at a gas station so my homie could get some snacks for the airplane ride. its like 9 o clock at nite and theres no one around. so this dude, not a bum, walks up to me with a piece of paper in his hand and goes "dont worry, im not a scary black guy, im not gonna rob you." (i was like...okayy....) He tells me that he needs 40 bucks to get this part for his car and tries to show me the estimate. he said he had been standing there all day and that he had only collected a few bucks to get the part. so i tell him i have LITERALLY 6 bucks, and that i need 3 for the Richmond-San Rafael bridge toll. i hand him the 3 bucks and he gives me the dead-on look, no expression, and goes "thats it, 3 bucks, really?"


i snatched the 3 bucks back out of his hand and in my best Deebo impression said "FUCK YOU THEN PUNK" and drove away. (my buddy had gotten back in my car at this point.)

seriously who asks for money, you give it to them, and then they complain about it.

 

[DeepEastBeast]

No joke back when i had my minvan (it got stolen by Lake Merced, right outside my dorm at SFSU) i was giving my homie a ride to the Oakland Airport and we stopped at a gas station so my homie could get some snacks for the airplane ride. its like 9 o clock at nite and theres no one around. so this dude, not a bum, walks up to me with a piece of paper in his hand and goes "dont worry, im not a scary black guy, im not gonna rob you." (i was like...okayy....) He tells me that he needs 40 bucks to get this part for his car and tries to show me the estimate. he said he had been standing there all day and that he had only collected a few bucks to get the part. so i tell him i have LITERALLY 6 bucks, and that i need 3 for the Richmond-San Rafael bridge toll. i hand him the 3 bucks and he gives me the dead-on look, no expression, and goes "thats it, 3 bucks, really?"


i snatched the 3 bucks back out of his hand and in my best Deebo impression said "FUCK YOU THEN PUNK" and drove away. (my buddy had gotten back in my car at this point.)

seriously who asks for money, you give it to them, and then they complain about it.

Coo story bruh

 

[Roz]

I used to give money out to bums, but fuck that... they see you givin' em money, and they might try and rob you, or pull some funny shit... There's a reason they're out on the street...

 

[Defy]

if they young I ask bums for spare change before they can ask me. they look back all confused like you asked them what the square root of 2985.45 is.


usually I don't give shit. if they askin for "a little help on your way out" before I enter the store I tell em no. when they ask again I tell em I already answered that question.

but if they out there doin something I might give em some change. sometimes I'll give cigs. but most of the time I got my headphones on and I pretend I don't hear them.


lol, speakin of which, there's this one bum that be out by embarcadero at night most weeknights as I'm gettin on bart and he always asks for spare change and I either say no or ignore him. well friday I'm walkin with my headphones on and he says "spare any change? No. See you next week"