...Help please...

[All Out HOGG]

Pretend that one day you met this girl...U didn't know anything about her except that she is your homegirls friend...& they come over to kick it with u & one of your friends...You began talking to her & you & her realy hit things off good...I mean real good...So from that point on you & the girl stay in real close contact...Talking almost every day at some point or another & then about 3 weeks later...she sets up a day that for most of it is just u & her alone, out together & at her place...The day goes completely perfect & u actualy know that inside that you realy like this girl...She's 18, looks gorgouse, can cook coconut creme pie, is open minded to new & diffrent things, & your just able to talk 2 her & enjoy it...Then the next morning...She comes up to you teary eyed...& when you ask her whats wrong...she explains how much she likes you aswell & is scared to tell u sumthing thinking you will hate her...then she finally does...












































'I have H.I.V."


Okay maybe im stupid for even considering asking this...But if you found that perfect person...& they had aids what would u do...U can't ever have sex with them...& u know that they wont live forever...But noone ever does...U know ina cupple of years your entire world will clash...But it is it worth it for the love that would be there for the time it can be??? Or is it better to just X her from your life completely?

Please only give serious answers...

 

[TONY206]

hmmm thats a very hard question cause i recently ran into a
situation like that but this problem was over real quick, girl had
chlamydia but that got me thinkin what if she had gotten hiv and
that was a hard question that really made me think.

one question you need to ask yourself is can she make you
happy without sex?

if she could make me happy without sex then i would go with it.

 

[All Out HOGG]

Yah she can...I can live without sex no problem...I wouldnt be able to give up oral...but reguluar sex isnt a problem...Im more concerened with the fact i know she wont be here with me forever then the sexual aspect of things

 

[TONY206]

i think if this was moved to gathering of the minds youd get more responses

but yea as long as she can make you happy id go for it, you gotta take the good with the bad. you never know tho, you could move in with her and find out shes not the 1.

 

[jay deuce]

Wow this is pretty deep for real. I don't know what I would do.

If I really liked a girl, livin without sex wouldn't be a problem at all. Matter of fact, I don't wanna settle down with a bitch that gives it up within the first couple days I know her. BUT the reason we arent able to have sex is a problem. She has HIV, I mean, thats huge. It wouldn't keep me from bein good friends with this girl, but a relationship is all bad.

 

[DubbC415]

the thing is, if u love someone, u dont fuccin ditch em if they have AIDS...if its real love, they need u and u need them. I was in love once, (long story short) and this girl broke up with me cuz she had cancer, cuz she didnt want me to be hurt, and i didnt know what hurt more, the fact that we broke up, or if it would hurt me if were together, knowing she wasnt gonna make it.

 

[Darkshowdown]

Do what your heart tells you to. Tough decision if that was me I wouldn't Hook up with her on a lovers level, I will just remain best friends with her. Because you don't wanna end up fucking a friendship up if yall broke up.

 

[mustynutz]

this is one of those mind over matter situations


if you dont mind.............. it dont matter.