Guys & Girls help me think this thru. My nosey ass wife did.....

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Jul 26, 2002
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I agree with Kaylyn on this one ....

I mean .. this isn't a boyfriend/ girlfriend situation they are husband and wife. There is a difference. Now if a girlfriend was doing this I can completely see where your coming from.

The question is why did she read your email?

Have you been hiding things from her lately? Has anything been different? It's very odd for a female to never do any sneaking around for all the years you've been together and then all of a sudden she starts to do so .... unless she has a guilty conscience.

If you have nothing to hide then let her get that out ... I'm not sure how the communication is in the relationship but she should be able to come to you and talk to you about whatever it is that is bothering her.

Also ..... Why did she leave if there is nothing for her to be upset about?
 

Cmoke

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May 10, 2002
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fuck a bitch thats all up in your biz, ya yall are married but there is also a respect issue involving your personal privacy, its the fact she was still readn that shit after u talked to her thats fucked up, and downright disrespectful. and it dont matter if u got somthin to hide in that email account or not. its the simple fact of the matter.
 
May 16, 2004
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Thanks everyone for all the feedback. She came home late last night and still pretty shook up. Any way today we made up and I brought her into the office with me and then we went to some private hot tub place off van ness and now shit is cool.
Since I originally came looking for validation (obviously) I will continue to give yall my biased side of the story for those who disagree.
Broad has opened bank statements in the mail and mail in the begining till I barked at her. She has been known to mill through all the little pieces of paper in my wallet, dig thru my cell phone, through my glove box when Im up in somewhere, through my computer files, eves drop om my phone calls listen to my voice mail before I do and shit like that. I definately put my foot down in all of these above situations and she knows that these type of things are my biggest pet peeves.

For the broads and tricks who questioned my privacy making snap judgements about what my brain has experienced here yall go. Ive been locked up and institutionalized over the past 8 years for 3 of them (no exageration) So when I was a little kid and the punk fuzz would run through my pockets, or my mom dig through my room, or the principal at high school search my shit, or being patted down every time I had a block movement, being called out to the yard for cell searches, when I get pulled over, still pissing in a cup for the man etc... Yall should get the picture. I get a feeling of violation.
I live life on lifes terms now (so to speak) and I have made changes in my life that allow me to be my own man and not have no one tell me shit (let alone what to do) This is my choice because of the way I live and my level of responsibility. I dont live at moms house. I pay rent. I dont cheat on my broad or do nothing I cant admit to her. And shit about porn we watch that shit together. From day one she dont have shit on me cuz I wont let her. Ive learned in the past with relationships that if you allow them leverage by your actions they will use it against you until the two of you seperate. Bottom line is this and someone pointed this out. I dont really matter that girl was digging through my email as much as what the fuck was her reason for doing that. She still hasnt really given me a reason for it but I dont care cuz I think I got my point across. Also we have been doing well for the most part and both of us are content with our realationship. There has been no sudden changes in nothing about our daily routines and nothing dramatic or drastic has occured period.
Thank you everyone for giving me a piece of your mind.
Maybe if someone requests to see the guilty party Ill post a picture up. It's nice to have a place where I can spew and also get some constructive feedback and thanks to those who gave a fuck enouugh about me to express your opinion.
 
Jul 26, 2002
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I apologize if you thought I was blaming you or trying to pin it on you.

I can completely see where your coming from now that there's more information about your past and how she has been in the past as well. I think she may have been hurt in the past by someone else and is just scared that you might do the same. I guess you can call it insecurity but that is what I get out of it after you went into more detail.
 
Aug 20, 2004
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I can dig it moonpizzle...i feel the same way as you do..i dont like somone holdin the power or even the slightest thought of WILL...to snoop thorugh ANYTHING of mine...especially in my own home.I pay rent in that bitch.You either follow MY rules(and this goes for ANYONE in my home...not just a signifigant other)...never tell me what i can or cannot do...and dont ever switch things around or twiddle through my shit...cuz i tell ya...thats how people get slapped...until another starts payin rent...its all mine and off limits unless i give the word...END OF STORY!!!!
 
Jun 27, 2002
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a simple application of Dim Mak pressure points will stop her from ever going thru your mail again....

or mail yourself a letter....a real nasty freaky one ( include scat,beastiality,golden showers,fisting,squirting,tub girl impersonators and Goatse pics)...and sign her sisters name to it....or her moms....she'll get a nice suprise....

or mai your self a note that simply says "bitch stop readin my fuckin mail"
 
May 16, 2004
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mustynutz said:
a simple application of Dim Mak pressure points will stop her from ever going thru your mail again....

or mail yourself a letter....a real nasty freaky one ( include scat,beastiality,golden showers,fisting,squirting,tub girl impersonators and Goatse pics)...and sign her sisters name to it....or her moms....she'll get a nice suprise....

or mai your self a note that simply says "bitch stop readin my fuckin mail"
heh...thanks for the suggestions ol' musty

also that nuttsack in your sig... Is it musty?