^Thats what I do, i occasionally request to cancel sales thru ebay on high ticket but small items after an auction and request payment directly thru paypal. No ebay or final value fees for you, the buyer pays the same amount, and the best part is even after the sale has been cancelled on ebay, ebay still allows the buyer to leave positive or negative feedback so they still have that nice security for the public to see. Most buyers have no problem doing this once you explain it to them, and i maintain 100% transparency, so if there is a problem it will be handled the old fashion way, between one buyer and one seller. And you can even upload tracking for the buyer even after a cancellation. It's straight up using ebay without them even recognizing you used them. so in other words, they can't even rob you. I've done this numerous times, it's definitely not something ebay wants to find out about, so nobody sound the alarms. But in the end the only fees I'm ever paying anymore is a small paypal fee or a currency conversion charge on paypal which is hardly nothing compared to if the sale actually went through ebay. As far as ebay is concerned I never even sold the item, even though positive feedback is being left both ways every time. It's kind of funny because the majority of all my expensive sold items ever since I figured this out have been cancelled transactions that actually went thru paypal with happy buyers, and of course I'm happy too.
Again this is intended for honest business, other than returning the favor back to ebay for screwing so many people over millions of times a day, I have no malicious intentions by utilizing ebay's own loopholes, they got billions of dollars, my extra hundred dollars in profit here and there with happy customers isn't hurting anyone I know. I mean really who am I paying with ebay fees anyway... Ebay's world class customer service team and the big wheel they are given to spin to decide what to do? If anything the 50 cents it costs to list an item times the millions of items added on ebay daily is more than enough money to keep the machine cranking.