Trauma, U are very correct. Yes, some people thrive in such a group. And if that brings U to a better, closer walk w/ God right on for U. :classic:
Jesus is white in many European portraits, b/c they want a God/ Christ that looks like them. I've taken a few Art History classes and this seems to be the driving theme. When Christianity is introduced into other cultures, Jesus then takes on that groups physical characteristics.
When I was a little person I thought Jesus was a spanish speaking Mexican. Then I made friends w/ an American and was told, no Jesus is not Mexican, he is American and he speaks English. lol, I got all worried, b/c I didn't know English and thought Jesus couldn't understand my prayers. I was a tard. :classic: