Doesn't it suck when....

[2-0-NINE]

Someone dies and you never told them you loved them and cared for them. They knew and all, but wouldn't it be better if we told them before they passed away? I hate that feeling.

 

[Gas One]

but if they had passed away and you had told them you loved them

then youd find something else to feel remorseful about

its a natural emotion to feel that way when someone dies

 

[MataSkonkas]

IF THEY WERE REALLY THAT CLOSE TO YOU, WHETHER YOU WERE ON GOOD TERMS OR BAD THOSE WORDS COULD BE LEFT UN SAID AND THEY WOULD STILL KNOW WHATS UP ESPECIALLY IF THEY WERE FAM.....

 

[Pioneer]

IF THEY WERE REALLY THAT CLOSE TO YOU, WHETHER YOU WERE ON GOOD TERMS OR BAD THOSE WORDS COULD BE LEFT UN SAID AND THEY WOULD STILL KNOW WHATS UP ESPECIALLY IF THEY WERE FAM.....

well put, old chap...........

 

[KillaKali]

^True. I'm facin' that feeling evryday of my life for almost 3 years now. It's all bad but you gotta make peace within yourself or it'll jus eat you up.

 

[ValleyPainProduct]

doesnt it succ when......

you post a thread an no one reads it....but im there for ya mayne im bumpin this up for you......

 

[DubbC415]

yeah man, that really "sucks", good word for it.

 

[RedStorm]

No, it doesn't suck. If you show them love through their life, then saying "I love you" won't do shit. It's not the words, it's the sentiment. I would think that it "sucks" to be concerned with words you didn't say rather than the feelings you DID give.

And if they died on bad terms with you, I'm sure they'll understand in the afterlife (if you believe in that) that you did show/feel love towards them. If you don't believe in an afterlife (like me), then they're unconscious, unaware, and unaffected by what happened in life, in which case it's not really something to worry too much on since YOU are the only one who carries the "burden" and can resolve it through understanding.