Does the Pain of a Lossed love one ever leave you?

[2-0-NINE]

Well, does it. I know a couple of people that can just say, bleh, it's done and over with can't do shit, so I don't feel said or any pain. As for me, it's almost near impossible to just erase it out my mind.

 

[Lamberto Quintero]

You can't erase it, and you shouldn't try to. You must accept the fact that it happened because it's a part of life, and try to move on by remembering the good times you had with the person...

 

[captainc]

no never.

 

[sassy707]

no... it may seem like it does... but then you just have to see a picture, or hear a song and it will come right back... it how you deal with that emotion, you can turn it into a good thing....

RIP. Marcel.... he was killed in Vallejo yesterday.... you will be missed

 

[Mars]

I know its hard bro... but you just have to keep calling her.

Then following her. See what shes up to. No one will ever love her like you do! Don't take no for an answer.

Remember, restraining orders are just a peice of paper. Don't let anything get in the way.

 

[DAT NIGGA TAZZ]

dumbass emo son

 

[mrtonguetwista]

My dad has been gone 3yrs today, but I don't grieve on death I constantly think of all the good things and fun times

 

[Danger Manye]

Yeah it does, all it really matters is on how you leave this world. I think people can handle it better if they loved one went out peaceful, but when someone dies threw affliction i think it felt for many years after.

 

[TRAJIK1]

its been 2 years for me and im barely starting to get over it

 

[emma]

it never completely goes away, but as time goes by, you adjust, and it does get better.

but then sometimes there are moments where something triggers a memory & it all comes back.

 

[mrtonguetwista]

it never completely goes away, but as time goes by, you adjust, and it does get better.

but then sometimes there are moments where something triggers a memory & it all comes back.

Yea, like today (date of death), birthday, Fathers Day, and major family holidays.

 

[LurccH918]

it always stays with you, but u just move on to another chapter and really hurts the day they died and holidays

 

[FDS]

nope

 

[luv2squab]

my grandpa passed last year and every year i would go to his ranch and have christmas over there and this christmas was the first one without him so that triggered it for me...

 

[Arson]

my grandpa passed last year and every year i would go to his ranch and have christmas over there and this christmas was the first one without him so that triggered it for me...

sorry folks.

 

[City Situation]

you cant, but it gets better over time. for me, there's so many things that spark up a memory tho

 

[LMD1510]

Never.

My best friend was killed 12 years ago this month. I think of him everyday, and every April I still feel the pain, every birthday of his I still feel the pain. It has decreased over time, but only because I force myself to see the positives that came out of it as far as my drive, determination and appreciation for those who are actually still here.

 

[luv2squab]

sorry folks.

he had lung cancer but they didnt find it out until it spread all over and he had kimo many times but he finally decided that the kimo isnt doing anything so he stopped it...

 

[underground]

nope

 

[grind4mine]

I drink to ease the pain.... but really though.... they are in a better place now, its hell on earth.