Not that anyone gives a crap what I think, but I disagree. If you got a dude that knows she's married and goes out of his way to try and get her to cheat or game her up etc..., that is a violation in my opinion. In the end, yes, she is more at fault. If I'm somewhere and I saw a dude trying to game up my chick and he knew she was married, he's liable to get beat down. If came home and some dude was bangin my chick, they're liable to both get killed at that point in time (In Texas, it was actually legal to kill the dude bangin your wife in that situation, not sure if it still is). If she comes out and says she's been cheating, that's different and really it's just on her at that point. But if after the fact, the dude comes out talkin hella noise about how he banged my wife and we decided to stay together, that's gonna be a problem sooner or later and I'm sure a lot of dudes would agree. There's only so much of that a man can take if he's trying to keep his marriage together. I've banged plenty of married women and cheated on my ex wife and al that, and it's honestly a terrible feeling and I always expected to catch a major beatdown or worse if their husbands ever found out. Not that I can't handle myself but they would definitely be justified in smokin me if that was the case in my opinion.
Again, I'm sure most people could care less about what I say about this, but Proverbs 5 in the Bible has some serious wisdom to read about. It's a man warning his son about adultery.