I try to see the bright side of things, and try to give props where they are due... for instance, If somebody drives me somewhere, I always make sure to say thank you, etc. So, that said, if somebody takes care of his kids, even though he's supposed to, I see that as a positive thing, and have respect for them, for that. For instance, a family just moved in next door, and they've got 3 kids, and I remember when I first saw the dad outside, I thought to myself "That's cool, he's taking care of his family".