Damn, sorry to hear about your Mom,... I dont know what I'd do if someone took my mom from me & I'm in my 30's... not like a child who is dependent, but I still am, just cause she is my mom.
would you feel justice was served if you were able to take his life with your own hands?
Or even if "justice" wasent served, do you think it would ease the pain of her death?
Thanks man. Yeah my mom was murdered when I was 8 and my sister was 4. It's a horrible feeling that nobody should ever have to go through.
To be honest, I think justice was served just by putting that guy and his accomplice behind bars. At least that way I know that they won't live a normal life. They don't deserve it. My grandma told me that during the last day of the trial, the guy who killed my mom asked the judge if he can hug his mom cuz it was his birthday. The judge told him that my mom's children will never be able to hug her, so why should he hug his mom?
I don't think justice would be served if I took him out...it would just give me the satisfaction that he's dead. Some people might say that revenge is a bad thing, but maybe I'm just a sick person.
And I don't think anything can ease the pain of the death of a loved one except time. It's been almost 11 years but sometimes I still cry at her grave. But I definitely don't feel the same pain that I felt when it recently happened.