How do you erase it?
And could you give me an example of your statement?
What do mean by "your first opinion"? Would that include a physical description? What do I think about how that person thinks?
When I look at someone and say, "that dudes an asshole", he probably had to do somethin I considered an asshole to do. Or if I say,"That dudes cool", he probably had to do something I considered to be cool.
My opinion is based on what I have deemed to be a specific characteristic of my understanding of a descriptive word.
I can flip it by sayin if I said, "hey look at the fat dude", and pointed to a crowd of people how many people you think would look at the 90 lb. guy instead of the 300 lb. guy? Why would that be any different if I said, "that's dudes an asshole"? It's not being mean it's stating fact. It's order, and without it we would be incapable of learning or distinguishing individual consciousness.
In order for all of us to understand each other we need a clear and unchanging understanding of one another's form of communication. Nobody likes to be lied to even a liar. And knowledge is based on how much truth we know.