I would try and use this argument to their spouses...
Does your rule apply to all scenarios? For same reason the death penalty is hypocritical, your logic seems to be following the same path.
What i am saying is if you are going to be a piece of shit, dont get mad when someone is a peice of shit to you. If you are a believer in karma, its that whole "what comes around, goes around".
Again fighting being a piece of shit by being a piece of shit seems hypocritical at best.
Also you are far too smart to believe in Karma.
So cheating ong some you made MARRIAGE VOWS with is a "lifestyle"? Good to know. Again, be a piece of shit, get shitted on. Not sure how this concept is flying over you head.
You are painting this black and white but the reality is far more nuanced.
What about people in loveless marriages that have agreed to maintain a home for the sake of their children?
What about people in countries where being a homosexual is punishable by death?
What about people who have agreements to be open but discreet whose information is now available to anyone?
What about people who signed up out of curiosity but never followed through with anything?
What about people who never signed up but had an old hacked e-mail used by someone else?
Many people have come out with nuanced perspectives of this complicated situation that is far different than the stereotype being presented on feminist leaning blogs of "rich abusive husband locks poor little wife in closet while he fucks everyone in town"
Here is an idea...DONT BE A PIECE OF SHIT. Maybe that will help. No sure, just an idea.
If someone agrees with being a lying piece of shit, then fuck them too. Plain and simple. I have LITERALLY, no sympathy for these people. At all. Life just served you a fat ass lesson...now its your choice on what to do with it. They already made the choice to be a piece of shit. See how that turned out?
Life is fun.
It is short sighted to cast such a broad net that all these people are pieces of shit but in any case being a piece of shit to someone who is a piece of shit is hypocritical.