people sometimes become defensive and feel their stance is being attacked even when it isn't, and their own stance is so fragile and unfounded on any ACTUAL personal experience that they willingly put their heads in the sand, and choose to continue having their hand held as they are led through their shitty 1 dimensional lives.
Although they appear to be grown men who haven't grown enough to realize that the world does not revolve around them, that others have just as much of a personal relationship with their life and their world, and a right to Life, they are actually just cowards, and their issue with the others is nothing personal.
They will panic and cry out "oh no please no! You can do anything to me but force me to see the actual motivating factors behind my actions, beliefs, values, and identifications, or the Identity that I consider to be me that came from them!"
shieett nigga , that is like asking somebody to commit a personal suicide, and it is.