lol these responses have been consistent with what everyone else is saying. My ex wife is my age, and the only other woman I even kinda dated in between then and when I met my fiance is my age too. Biggest difference in the plus column there other than the physical is... little to no baggage!!! Dating a 30 year old woman comes with a lot more b.s. if she's single/never married with no kids, there's probably a damn good reason for it. You're dealing with a 1/3 more baggage than I am now. Also, I wouldn't just marry any 20 year old and it sounded ridiculous when we even got together to some people. She exceeds my expectations on every level on the daily. Drives 30-40 minutes to come clean my house on her days off. Willingly and happily picks up my kids from day care and takes care of them without being asked. Does my laundry, dishes, all that. Not to mention, we have off the charts chemistry together. Maybe it all blows up in my face someday, maybe I get hit by a train and die tomorrow for all I know. But as of tonight, I'm as happy as I've ever been and she's changed my mind that there actually still are some decent women out there. I had met a long line of really crappy women for years before meeting her.