Shit like that can age you 10 yrs overnight...
I feel y'all... a few years back 3 of my classmates died (one of which was a good friend) as a result of the driver being drunk... the driver lived though, and is still locked up...
They were on their way to a house party - which ended when another childhood friend was murdered... matter of fact, he was the first cat I ever smoked weed with...
Look at it like this - when it's your time to go, you'll already have folks who'll be waiting, ready to show you the way...