If your daughter was being PIMPED.......

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Nov 28, 2011
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Would you kill the pimp like these parents did?


SAN FRANCISCO — Attorneys for the San Francisco couple are calling it "every parent's nightmare."

Barry Laprell Gilton and Lupe Mercado watched, dismayed and helpless, as their 17-year-old daughter was lured away from home by a known Compton gang member, who wound up as her pimp.

The couple tried to persuade the teenager to break ties with 22-year-old Calvin Sneed. They sought help from law enforcement — to no avail — and later added the girl to several missing and exploited children registries, according to their lawyers. And that, their lawyers said, was where they left it.

Prosecutors contend they did far more.

In a criminal complaint that has stunned the couple's friends and relatives, the San Francisco district attorney's office said Gilton and Mercado plotted to kill Sneed. One attempt on the night of May 27, along Vineland Avenue in North Hollywood, failed. A second, not far from the couple's home near San Francisco's Candlestick Park, succeeded.

Sneed, officials said, was gunned down in his car on June 4 at 2 a.m. by Gilton, who allegedly fired a .40-caliber weapon from a silver Mercedes-Benz SUV.

"We have substantial evidence to believe that this was a premeditated event," Dist. Atty. George Gascon said Thursday.

Gascon said that as a father, he understood "the frustration that the parents must have felt.... But taking the law into your own hands is not an acceptable solution."

Said Eric Safire, who represents Gilton: "There is some circumstantial evidence, and there's certainly a motive, but there is no direct evidence that we've been made aware of."

Gilton, 38, and Mercado, 37 — who began dating in middle school and have three younger boys — were deeply concerned for their daughter, who left home about a year ago, Safire said. They had discovered that she was appearing in escort ads, and that she seemed to be working for Sneed.

"They … had come to learn that she was being unduly influenced by this fellow," Safire said. "They encouraged her to stay away, and tried to get help to encourage him to stay away."

Mercado's lawyer, Tony Tamburello, said Thursday that law enforcement officials "jumped to the conclusion that because [the couple had] a motive, that they're the people who are responsible."

"They're wrong. And they've been wrong before."

Gilton and Mercado, who are scheduled to be arraigned June 20, are being held on $2-million bail apiece. Each faces one count of murder, one count of discharging a firearm into an occupied motor vehicle and one count of conspiracy to commit murder, according to the complaint. Gilton also faces a charge of possessing a firearm as a felon due to a 1995 drug-related conviction.

Prosecutors contend the couple tracked Sneed to North Hollywood on May 27 and fired a 9-millimeter handgun at him as he sat in a car, "striking him."

Los Angeles Police Det. Steve Castro confirmed the shooting, but said Sneed's injuries resulted from shattered glass. According to a police report, there was no surveillance video available of the scene where an "unidentified suspect approached on foot" and fired nine shots.

Sneed's girlfriend drove him to the hospital, where he refused to cooperate with authorities, the report said.

The 17-year-old returned with Sneed to the Bay Area on the weekend of June 2 to visit an ailing relative, Safire said. She argued with her parents, who tried unsuccessfully to get Sneed to leave.

In the early hours that Monday, Safire said, Sneed was "out doing his business in a foreign gang area. We do know that he was involved in gang activity and that he was up here on his own. It's not unlikely that he would be exposed to violence."

But according to the complaint, Mercado phoned Gilton — who was in the Mercedes SUV — at 1:57 a.m. Four minutes later, authorities said, Gilton fired the fatal shots.

The allegations have come as a shock to those close to the couple.

An aunt who emerged from Gilton's grandparents' home in San Francisco's Western Addition on Thursday said she believed they had been betrayed.

"The parents went to ask the authorities for help, and [the authorities] are flipping it," Patricia Ann Gilton, 60, said. Barry Gilton and Mercado were "the victims, and now they're the suspects."

Gilton said her nephew is "a good kid. He worked, took care of his family."

Dean Maye said he had known Gilton since he was a guard on the Mission High School basketball team. Maye later coached him in the San Francisco Bay Area Pro-Am Summer Basketball League. Gilton since has volunteered countless hours to the league, helping Maye scout prospects and working with local college players, while also coaching at the nearby Boys and Girls Club of San Francisco.

"He's a dedicated father, a great father," Maye said. "We're shocked about this. I know the whole family. I can't picture it. I don't believe it."

Pimps Dad responds:

http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2012/06/15/MNED1P2450.DTL
 
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^lmao!!!
not sure what to say....shit like this happens all the time when underage girls get pimpd out, guess cube was right,gangsta rap made them do it
 
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I know people who know people in similar circumstances, and I although I have no respect for whores, some girls live in shitty ass conditions have little to no way out n thats their choice of how to do it, to blame it on parents who care enough to try to free their daughter from that lifestyle is lower than fuckin dirt, I also really agreed with the victims's father, seemed like a very smart man despite his son bein a pimp
 
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What good does it do me to know the parents began dating in middle school? Persuasive writing bullshit. So they killed a pimp, who cares? The only thing the dad has to worry about now is his asshole once word spreads in the pen that he killed a pimp.
 
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some girls live in shitty ass conditions have little to no way out n thats their choice of how to do it,
What a ridiculous way to justify a wrong doing.
You think it's OK to be a prostitute just because you have no money? I guess it's OK to steal and deal drugs too right?

Maybe the parents shouldn't have had kids if they couldn't financially provide for their daughter. Obviously it was so bad that she had to sell her body.

100% blame to the parents. It's their job to raise their children properly. If you can't do that, then don't have them.
 
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What a ridiculous way to justify a wrong doing.
You think it's OK to be a prostitute just because you have no money? I guess it's OK to steal and deal drugs too right?

Maybe the parents shouldn't have had kids if they couldn't financially provide for their daughter. Obviously it was so bad that she had to sell her body.

100% blame to the parents. It's their job to raise their children properly. If you can't do that, then don't have them.
Its a reactionary article right, I reacted too quickly and I really try not to do that in life so Im sorry your entitled to your opinion but since I started let me try from another angle but I gotta say you equating trickin with stealing, and not having any blame for the pimp is not encouraging

Most kids growin up are influenced by their surrounding environments right? school they go to people in the neighborhood, peers, televison, etc etc. This young girl was influenced by a affiliated pimp to whatever degree, who sold her sweet dreams about your the one, lets get on this money train, blah blah blah, maybe she had low self confidence, maybe she fell for his looks, whatever the case, this is a minor getting preyed upon and by the book rape.

This Calvin Sneed wasnt from SF, he was from Compton, thru the internet most likely, maybe he had family up here, he got at here through the computer, I wish I could call the girl's father a hero that was my inital thought but reading the victims father's piece, he did not exhaust every option before resorting to violence

Makes it even worse your from Anaheim
 
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What good does it do me to know the parents began dating in middle school? Persuasive writing bullshit. So they killed a pimp, who cares? The only thing the dad has to worry about now is his asshole once word spreads in the pen that he killed a pimp.
because pimps are highly revered in the california prison system?
 
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Its a reactionary article right, I reacted too quickly and I really try not to do that in life so Im sorry your entitled to your opinion but since I started let me try from another angle but I gotta say you equating trickin with stealing, and not having any blame for the pimp is not encouraging

Most kids growin up are influenced by their surrounding environments right? school they go to people in the neighborhood, peers, televison, etc etc. This young girl was influenced by a affiliated pimp to whatever degree, who sold her sweet dreams about your the one, lets get on this money train, blah blah blah, maybe she had low self confidence, maybe she fell for his looks, whatever the case, this is a minor getting preyed upon and by the book rape.

This Calvin Sneed wasnt from SF, he was from Compton, thru the internet most likely, maybe he had family up here, he got at here through the computer, I wish I could call the girl's father a hero that was my inital thought but reading the victims father's piece, he did not exhaust every option before resorting to violence

Makes it even worse your from Anaheim
Why place all the blame on the pimp? The pimp was extorting the girl. I'm not opposed to extortion as long as it's mutual. All I was stating that if it was anyone's job to prevent this from happening, it was the parents of the daughter. Not only did they cause the problem, they made it worse. They tried to fix the problem by killing someone. That in itself tells you what type of mentality they have. I doubt they had Grade A parenting skills.

Not really sure what it has to do with me living in Anaheim.
 
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touchy subject for sure.....not sure how i might handle this situation but I will says this...you have to be a parent to understand...2 cents
 

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Its the parents obligation to instill moral judgment into their child. Of course the parents have a lot to do with it, although I seen the chuch padre's daughter ... let the hood train her at a party.
 
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Why place all the blame on the pimp? The pimp was extorting the girl. I'm not opposed to extortion as long as it's mutual. All I was stating that if it was anyone's job to prevent this from happening, it was the parents of the daughter. Not only did they cause the problem, they made it worse. They tried to fix the problem by killing someone. That in itself tells you what type of mentality they have. I doubt they had Grade A parenting skills.

Not really sure what it has to do with me living in Anaheim.
DIDN'T THEY TRY TO GET THE POLICE INVOLVED... IF THE LAW AINT GONNA HELP THEN FUCK IT... TAKE CARE OF YOUR FAMILY AT ALL COSTS...
 
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Bottom line if that was my daughter id wipe out his whole blood line,da fuck is dis shit?

I know a fiend who found out his kid was slangin pussy,he tracked down the nigga dat put her on the track and knifed him up dead and shit...its not a game mayne...