EDJ said:
AND WHO'S DOIN' THAT? RAPE IS A REPERCUSSION OF ATTENTION.
Being clubbed in the back of the head, thrown in a trunk, and having your limbs sawed off is also a repercussion of attention. It doesn't mean it's a normal causal relationship as in attraction->attention->rape.
OF COURSE WOMEN DO. BUT IF YOU RAPED TWICE, SHOULDN'T YOU BE SCARRED SOME KIND OF WAY?
Of course being raped will scar you. That goes without saying. It's not something you just get over like a fuckin removed tonsil. Saying that since she was raped, she has to live in a closet, fear men, and cover up her body the rest of her life is 1. presumptuous, 2. judgmental, 3. backwards. It should be the rapist who feels repercussions, not her. It is up to her to grieve or deal in her way. The burden doesn't lie on your judgement as far as what is appropriate for her to be doing.
SO YOU SAYIN' THAT RAPE DOESN'T TAKE SOME SORT OF INTERACTION?
Rape is in no way a normal or expected interaction. To try to tie rape into the normal scope of human behavior with some sort of categorical grouping / argument is like saying "You just bought a candy bar. Buy me a house, since you're buying shit."
The two have completely different dynamics, though they are both technically a purchase. Holding down and raping a girl does not belong in the same category as dating, a phone call, or a weekend boat trip, though technically yes, they are all interactions.
NAW, BUT YOU SHOULDN'T RISK YOUR HEALTH BY SUPERFICIAL VANITY INDUCED THOUgHTS(BREAST IMPLANTS). WOMEN SHOULD BE HAPPY AND PROUD OF WHO THEY ARE(RAPED OR NOT). gETTIN' BREAST IMPLANTS DOESN'T SOLVE PROBLEMS OR SCARS. JUST MAKES MORE.
Who are you to judge at what point someone is risking too much of their health? You most likely drink alchohol and smoke blunts, both of which lead to potential obesity. You have been to the joint and you may have jailhouse or normal tattoos, both of which run the risk of infection and skin cancer. I don't know how fast you drive, or any of the myriad factors affecting your health based on your own decisions.
I agree that people should be proud of their bodies and their natural looks. But some people's lives have undoubtedly been improved by cosmetic surgery, just as some have been damaged. To make a sweeping statement like "it just causes more problems" on some moralistic shit like you know everyones situation and how they feel is short-sighted.
If you had severe acne all your life and that shit cleared up you would be happy as fuck, and the attention you get from other people could very likely improve. The same could be said for a big ass hairy mole comin out the side of a bitches face, or for the girls who got some flat ass chests with nothin but nipples lookin like a 10 year old boy. To say "well it just always causes problems" is ridiculous. If implants for example are nothing but more problems they would get removed the vast majority if not 100% of the time.
The reality is they aren't, and many people are happier after cosmetic surgery.
YOU ACT LIKE THERE AIN'T WOMEN THAT ARE CANIVIN'(SP?) REgARDLESS, AS ANAL AS IT MAY BE, EVERYBODY SHOULDN'T BE gIVEN THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT OFF TOP.
If a black man said to you "this white bitch gave me some dirty ass looks" or "this old white man called me a ****" or "I got followed in a store by a white ass rent a cop" and a white man also said to you "this black man called me a gay ass peckerwood and tried to rob me" or "this black cop pulled me over because im white" or "these black people at a bank gave me horrible customer service and refused to help me because im white" who would you believe first?
The GOM response to this question is "well I would investigate each charge individually" "I wouldnt judge the white guy differently" etc. but you live in an environment in which you see anti-black racism, discrimination, and prejudice as having a much greater likelihood and greater basis of occurance than anti-white racism, thus you would probly give the black man's claims more weight.
In the same way, as we know rapes are underreported, (1 in 5 women will be sexually assaulted sometime and their lives, and less than 1/3 of them go to the police) a woman's claims of being raped have a greater weight of credibility than a man's claims that it is just some bitch out to get him.
I think often ghetto men have this sort of love-hate paradigm with women in which they love pussy, but are generally untrustful and dismissive of women, even when it comes to potentially large and serious accusations, and there is heavy groupthink among men not to be seen as giving power or leverage to women.